Sunday, November 21, 2010

How do i stop my men from watching some undersierable things?

i have bought a laptop recently n my man have now start using.... i love him so much and little old fashion... i don't allow him to sexy stuffs. even thought a girl dance with mini skirt or bikini i find that undersierable even though i know it is not too wrong... but i only want him to see me not anyone... how can i stop him? i can't blocking of such view in the net but he would think that i am controling him.. why does men like to watch such things wat do they gain? can i know how can i still view wat my bf have seen in the net even if he deletes the history i think there is something call cookies to be view or temporay files right... where can i check it... pls advice thanksHow do i stop my men from watching some undersierable things?
You sound jealous to me! You need to let him have a little bit of freedom! If not, things that are bad, could happen!How do i stop my men from watching some undersierable things?
good luck with this one mendo what they want regardless of what you want them to do
Tell him you don't want him looking at pornography or such if it bothers you. If he still does it, either find another man or accept him as a normal male.
When you do let all us other women know
Why are you obsessing over this? It will destroy your relationshiop. Have you done any of the ';sexy'; things for him? Romance him more....
Why do you worry so much! He is with you! Isn't he? There's nothing wrong with him looking at girls! As long as he doens't touch them or have sex with the everything is fine!
Men will be men when it comes to this, but I would let him know how you feel...and if you want to delete all that crap he is watching...just in case you ever lend you computer to someone...this is a good site that helped me with my now ex-husband...



http://www.evidence-eliminator.com/d2w/e鈥?/a>
your MEN? well how many you got?
tell him how you feel
Sounds like you are going to damage your relationship with your controlling ways. If you lighten up a bit, you will find things so much easier. Men are men are men - looking doesn't hurt and certainly doesn't mean that he finds you less desirable or loves you any less.
First learn how to express yourself properly. Then, get back to me.
....its human nature..either you talk to him about it in a nice way and if he doesn't see things your way don't push it...if you say you love him...love him unconditionally...
he's a man, cut him slack, we are hunters its what we do!
This is your laptop. You don't have to let him use it. Put it away when you are not using it and explain you don't want anyone using it but yourself. Stick to your guns.
um look guys are going to be guys
welll try to make him not look at those stuff

wel...

you can try to grab his attention and just tell him wat you feeel
This is absolute normal guy behavior. I'm a girl and I love to watch the stuff every now and then. It keeps the relationship healthy. Sounds to me like you are not that secure of yourself if you're worried about your boyfriend looking at things of this nature. All men do it. You should get used to it. Or try it. You might end up liking it. There's nothing gross, sick or wrong about it. We are all humans!!!
damn girl. By being so uptight, he will want to revolt...no matter what. You ask...';how can i make him do what i want?'; well you can't really. He has his own will. If you were more secure with who you are, it wouldn't bother you that he finds other women sexy. How is he suppose to not find other women sexy...its natural. that doesn't mean he will cheat....But when you get all controlling about it, your helping to encourage it, despite yourself. And if he likes dirty talk and you don't ....he'll probably get it else where. You need to dial a 987 number and learn how to do/enjoy talking dirty, and if you can't you need to find a man who doesn't like that kind of stuff. He will stray....i promise you.
You cannot control or change who he is or what he likes. You can state to him that such material is offensive to you and you dislike it, but most likely he will not give a crap. Find a way to accept it and be at peace with it or find yourself another man. Sorry.
most guys like to look at the following:



women

shiny things

things that are run by gas or electricity

TV

food



its like it build into them. guys just like looking at stuff... it does not mean anything bad or that he would cheat on you or anything like that.....

guys just like to look at stuff.... they will look at the same thing hundreds of times. watch him look at stuff, he just can't help it.



if you stop him he'll either leave you or hate you



hope this helps,



SS
You can view the cache but alot of the images in the cache are from advertisers, search engine hits and other things that he never visited.



The primary issue is that he is not ';looking' in that sense at other women. That he sees other women helps him appreciate YOUR bueaty all the way. Think about it this way. If you lived next to niagra falls and saw it every day and nothing else. Wouldn't familiarity blind you to the greatness of even such a natural wonder?



Unless you man is spending lots of time doing it and or is off looking at such sites

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