Stuck in the ';Friend Zone';? PLEASE HELP!?

Okay, I've been friends with this girl for about 2 years. Ironically, I was a big nerd and the first thing she said to me was ';Do you want a ho lap dance?'; (Just to see what I would say). We've been friends from there on. I've gone to many different girls and they all ended up sucking (not literally). I finally realized the right girl has been there all along. Ho lap dance girl, who is really not a ho. I've been getting to hang around her a lot more than normal. I ASKED HER OUT She gave me a little ';what?'; face and she basically can't get over that I can be more than ';buddy';. She likes me, I am the total bomb (admitted form other people) in the grade. I've always just been.......';buddy';......she said she'd see a movie as friends, but how do I convince her to promote me?Stuck in the ';Friend Zone';? PLEASE HELP!?
Usually once you are in the friend zone, it is hard to get out. What you need to do, is get her used to the idea slowly. Start MILDLY flirting with her. Don't give her compliments all the time, like ';you are so pretty'; once you are in the friend zone, doing things like that will keep her there. Leave some mystery... let her know you might be interested in someone else, or date other people and bring them around her (without shoving it in her face). Once she sees that other women are interested in YOU, something strange happens and it makes you become desirable. She may start to question her feelings for you. Just start slowly giving her hints, and stop acting like her friend and act how you would with any other girl you have a crush on. Go to google and search ';how to go farther than the friend zone'; or something like that. I once saw an article on datingish.com that was called ';the friend zone ladder';. If you can find it on there, it will give you the PERFECT tips on how not to get ';friend zoned';. Just search on the web for tips... you will find some good stuff.Stuck in the ';Friend Zone';? PLEASE HELP!?
Grab her boob and see what happens.



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Just remain friends for now on because if you force her, you will end up embarrassing yourself. Who knows? She could be falling in love with you in the future.
Once in the friend zone usually always in the friend zone unless you act interested in other girls
Well since your already her friend, find out what she likes in a boy and what she likes to do. you know like her hobbies, and diferent things like that. and kinda sorta be the perfect guy for her. also, find out her dislikes, and never do them.
You can't make someone want to make you her bf or love you. Some people are just meant to be friends. Just go to that movie and be yourself talk about how you feel about her, and if she still said she only sees you as a friend, you should take it you don't wanna make her feel preassured to the point where she feels akward around you and doesn't even want to be your friend anymore.
Take your time and let her get used to the idea. Don't push. Just be yourself make her laugh. Don't suffocate her with your presence at this point, give her time to miss you. Don't crowd her. Let her see another side of you like maybe things that make you sad, things that scare you, maybe share some of your dreams. Do this stuff on the dates with her. When you call her make the calls short. Then when she starts calling you, you'll know she is interested in more than friendship.
I hate that, seriously man, I know that feeling. Its going to stay as friends only until she realizes that loves you more than she knows. Just dont push it and let time do the work.
It might scare her to think that if you two start to be more than friends and the relationship doesn't work then that friendship could be ruined. I'd take things slow for now and try not to be too clingy (not that you are now) and just talk about the possibility of be more than friends causually. You don't want to ';scare'; her off. But she might just think of you as a great frined, so all you can really do right now is just be there for her when she needs someone to talk to and listen to what she has to say. Make sure that she knows that you're someone she can count on. You can't push her, it kind of just has to happen. Hopefully she'll realize soon how much she means to you and you guys can be in a different ';zone'; All you have to do is try to give her time and understanding. She's got feel it or else neither of you will be happy. Good luck!
well i am sorry but as a girl this mean s we are just friends nothing more unless things change. i am sorry but mayb to get outta the friend zone is to simpliy ask her to movies an restraunts more often. good luck!!! an always remember if things dont work out she just wasnt the right one