Best way to approach a girl to dance?

ladies how would you like to be approached at a club? the eye contact doesnt work, ive had countless girls stare and talked to some of them but i always find myself starting the coversation and trying to get them to dance. Most of the time they use the line ';i cant i have a boyfriend'; which is complete crap but w/e. is it a comfort thing when youre with a friend and a guy comes to ask you to dance? i hate just going up to them and start grinding, it feels awkward to me even though i dont show it. i would love to know the ideal way a guy should approach you if youre dancing, ask you to dance and maybe how you would like to carry on in case he pursues for your number?. ...i need like a specific conversation or passed experiences you've faced because i am completely lost and annoyed because the old fashioned ';excuse me i couldnt help but notice you dancing and wanted to meet you'; or ';hi my name is ';';, would you like to dance?'; does not seem towork. are girlsintimidated if a builtguyapproaBest way to approach a girl to dance?
Just go up and nicely ask her! ';Hey, wanna dance with me?'; Don't try to be Suave or arrogant, just yourself! She might say yes and if she doesn't oh well. Tell her to have a nice night and ask someone else! i think straight out asking is the best approach. It shows confidence!Best way to approach a girl to dance?
Is it a safe guess you are at a 21+ club? Here's how I do it. I make eye contact with someone who has a nearly empty drink. Has to be someone on the dance floor or close to it. They usually have to be tapping a foot or some other sign they want to dance. Then I grin, wink and nod my head toward the dance floor. Sometimes he will point to a chick, sometimes, he'll point at the DJ and give a shake of the hand ';meaning bad song';, sometimes I get a nod back and we start dancing. The drink is because many people wont start dancing until they have at least one and it's less likely you will get a ';when my drink is done'; answer. This way works most the time.



21/Lady/Seattle, WA area. Go to clubs about 1-3 times a month.



Good luck

Beth