Thursday, October 28, 2010

How do you ask a girl to dance with you?

hi,

i am a shy boy, age 13, and i want a girlfriend, but i have never had the nerve to ask a girl to dance with me. how should i approach this?How do you ask a girl to dance with you?
I may be old fashioned but I am a 14 year old girl and I don't think people should date till sixteen, but going to a dance is cool, here is how I see it:



1. Get a breath mint - I'm not saying you have bad breath I'm just saying it's a good precaution

2. Wipe your hands on your pants - You don't want sweaty hands which is inevitable when your nervous

3. Do number 1. and 2. in the bathroom out of sight. You want to be put together when she first sees you

4. Make a sweet loveble smile approching her. Don't be cocky about it as if you are wasting your time by dancing with her.

5. ';May I please dance with you'; - but I have noticed as I tend to move alot, that people I different areas of the country might say it in a different way but you can also have a signature way like '; Do you want to dance with me';. This previous one is just a generic safe one.

6. After that it's up to her but I would never turn away any guy that has the courage to ask. It's always a gamble but hopefully I've given you good chances.

Oh! btw deoderant is a must.How do you ask a girl to dance with you?
If you know the girl and have had a couple of conversations with her, just ask her if she cared to dance with you. If you don't know the girl, get to know her by being yourself. Don't be a jerk, and don't be a know it all either. Girls like guys that make them feel comfortable. Once she is comfortable with you, she will gladly dance with you. Unless of course she doesn't know how to dance and doesn't want to embarrass herself.
first of all nawww ur soo cute haha

but im a girl and i would just like it if a guy would just come straight to me and say would u like to dance with me. Trust me i wouldnt blow off a guy who asked me girls would think its sweet



hope i helped xxxx
Look 'cool' and say hey what's up if she gives you that ';ugh'; look don't do anything because she's probably mean xP then if she seems cool say do you want to dance with me? and see where it goes...hope that helps x)
Do you mean at a dance or just randomly? Cause asking out of nowhere in the halls is kinda weird. But if there is a song playing just go up and ask. Kinda touch her shoulder. And smile. We love a cute smile(:
Just walk up and do it, girls like confidence. If she says no, move on to the next one, there are a lot of fish in the sea.
Okay! I'm a 13 year old girl so I know what you should say! You walk up to her and say, ';May I have this dance?'; with a smile and hold out your hand! It'll be cute! :)
aww

well you mean like at a school dance?



honestly just go up to a girl and say you wanna dance?

its not that big a deal! i promise she'll say yes unless shes dancing with someone already! :)
get off yahoo answers untill your 14, i think i read somewhere 14 was the minimum age
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  • How do you ask a girl to dance with you?

    hi,

    i am a shy boy, age 13, and i want a girlfriend, but i have never had the nerve to ask a girl to dance with me. how should i approach this?How do you ask a girl to dance with you?
    I may be old fashioned but I am a 14 year old girl and I don't think people should date till sixteen, but going to a dance is cool, here is how I see it:



    1. Get a breath mint - I'm not saying you have bad breath I'm just saying it's a good precaution

    2. Wipe your hands on your pants - You don't want sweaty hands which is inevitable when your nervous

    3. Do number 1. and 2. in the bathroom out of sight. You want to be put together when she first sees you

    4. Make a sweet loveble smile approching her. Don't be cocky about it as if you are wasting your time by dancing with her.

    5. ';May I please dance with you'; - but I have noticed as I tend to move alot, that people I different areas of the country might say it in a different way but you can also have a signature way like '; Do you want to dance with me';. This previous one is just a generic safe one.

    6. After that it's up to her but I would never turn away any guy that has the courage to ask. It's always a gamble but hopefully I've given you good chances.

    Oh! btw deoderant is a must.How do you ask a girl to dance with you?
    If you know the girl and have had a couple of conversations with her, just ask her if she cared to dance with you. If you don't know the girl, get to know her by being yourself. Don't be a jerk, and don't be a know it all either. Girls like guys that make them feel comfortable. Once she is comfortable with you, she will gladly dance with you. Unless of course she doesn't know how to dance and doesn't want to embarrass herself.
    first of all nawww ur soo cute haha

    but im a girl and i would just like it if a guy would just come straight to me and say would u like to dance with me. Trust me i wouldnt blow off a guy who asked me girls would think its sweet



    hope i helped xxxx
    Look 'cool' and say hey what's up if she gives you that ';ugh'; look don't do anything because she's probably mean xP then if she seems cool say do you want to dance with me? and see where it goes...hope that helps x)
    Do you mean at a dance or just randomly? Cause asking out of nowhere in the halls is kinda weird. But if there is a song playing just go up and ask. Kinda touch her shoulder. And smile. We love a cute smile(:
    Just walk up and do it, girls like confidence. If she says no, move on to the next one, there are a lot of fish in the sea.
    Okay! I'm a 13 year old girl so I know what you should say! You walk up to her and say, ';May I have this dance?'; with a smile and hold out your hand! It'll be cute! :)
    aww

    well you mean like at a school dance?



    honestly just go up to a girl and say you wanna dance?

    its not that big a deal! i promise she'll say yes unless shes dancing with someone already! :)
    get off yahoo answers untill your 14, i think i read somewhere 14 was the minimum age

    How do you dance with a girl when she puts her back to your chest?

    So at a party when dancing with a girl, sometimes when they're feelin it the girls like to do that thing where they press their back to your chest and do that wavy type motion with their body/all kinds of crazy hip stuff.



    I'm a horrible dancer/completely unflexible and I never know what to do in this case. What if I can't bend like her to mirror her exactly? I usually feel like i'm just gonna fall backwards when they do this and i'm sure the girls can tell i'm completely off balance.



    Any tips?How do you dance with a girl when she puts her back to your chest?
    in my opinion just go with the flow and follow the rhythm of the musicHow do you dance with a girl when she puts her back to your chest?
    just stuff dollar bills into their pants.
    You just do...
    Just fake it is what I would do and smile to enjoy the moment !
    ';How do you dance with a girl when she puts her back to your chest';?



    just throw a massive stiff, that usually freaks them out ,she will have her back off your chest in no time.

    How to dance with a girl to a fast song?

    So this year is the first time I've ever had a date to Homecoming and I am unsure of how to dance with my date during fast songs. I am most concerned with how to position myself in relation to her, where I put my hands, and how to move in general. I have no problem with slow dancing, I've just never danced to a fast song with a partner before. Help please? I really don't want to look stupid. Thanks.How to dance with a girl to a fast song?
    So this really depends on your date and the rules of your Homecoming dance. Some schools don't allow grinding, so if that's the case then it's just like on the movie ';Hitch.'; You don't want to be flailing all over the place, just relax, feel the beat, and step to the music. Furthermore, different girls have different personal space issues. Do not assume your date wants you grinding on her and your hands all over her. Start out apart, face to face, not even touching just stepping to the music. Then try to get a feel for what kind of dancing she's looking for, and go from there. Either way it's not like you want to be grinding all out on the high school dance floor, so keep it classy and just have fun!How to dance with a girl to a fast song?
    Eh, personally I would get freaked out if a guy tried to grind with me. Whenever I went to Homecoming in high school, my boyfriend and I only danced during the slow songs. Then we would sit out and talk and listen to the music during the fast songs. It was more enjoyable anyway, and we got to know each other. Not saying you shouldn't dance, just presenting another alternative.
    Im going to assume you will be in front of her, with her back to you, no?



    If that is the case, just slowly move your hips to the beat..Dont try to hard or move your arms all over the place, as this may look tacky.



    If she allows you and the music is right, put an arm on her hip or waist to let her know that you are one with her %26amp; the music. Looks better as well.
    aight, u gotta be cool with ur moves. don't be all aggressive, just keep it simple. get at a certain distance from her as u like and stay cool.



    there are sum moves u can do like...

    - putting your arms up and snapping ya fingers and also sway your hips

    - u can also move your shoulders up and down but make it look smooth

    - and grind (if that's allowed)

    - look what other people r doing if u need a visual



    just as long as u and her have fun its all good :)
    grind. stand behind her, put your hands on her hips, and move your hips to follow hers with the beat of the song.
    Just put your arms above your head and start flailing around like your catching money from the sky. And move your legs like someones shooting at your feet.

    How to dance with a girl during a fast song?

    So this year is the first time I've ever had a date to Homecoming and I am unsure of how to dance with my date during fast songs. I am most concerned with how to position myself in relation to her, where I put my hands, and how to move in general. I have no problem with slow dancing, I've just never danced to a fast song with a partner before. Help please? I really don't want to look stupid. Thanks.How to dance with a girl during a fast song?
    Stand behind her, hands on her hips and move, grind, shake, whatever you want to call it. She'll take it from there.How to dance with a girl during a fast song?
    Well, I can not tell you what to do, but as a girl I can absolutely tell you what has annoyed me when dancing fast songs with guys. I always hate it when the guy tries to lead me during a fast song (unless it is ballroom dancing, but I don't think this is what we are talking about here). The main reason is that I have my own dance moves for those songs and when the guy steps in and tries to do his thing with me I lose my beat. So I would advise you to do your thing in front of her during those songs and let her do her thing, and keep eye contact. Hope you have a fantastic evening!
    Okay here's the deal. I hate when people try to ';bump and grind'; or whatever they call it when dancing. I am a senior in college and dances I've gone to here disgust me when guys try to do that. It much more classy and sexy when a guy holds your hands and spins you around and stuff. Do fun things like dipping her and just being fun and goofy! I think most women would find that more attractive than someone trying to stick their junk in your butt. not cool!



    As for slow dancing, it is also sexy and attractive when a guy holds your left hand and dances with his hand on your waist or back that way. Being smashed up against each other looks stupid and you can't talk comfortably or see each other.
    First dance behind or in front of her and just move ur arms kind of and sway just have fun and if she gives signs she wants to grind and stuff then follow those signs but dont get to nasty cuz that can draw the wrong kind of attention back down if she tends to seem uncomfy
    grinding on someone =/= dancing



    (cf. the term 'freak dancing ' that's been coined to describe that sort of ';dancing';)
    Grind your groin my friend, grind your groin
    Just grab her butt and throw her around. Chicks like it when you do that!

    GUYS HELP ME OUT- How to slip away from my date at the dance?

    Seems kinda harsh, but I need to slip away from my date at my semi-formal high school dance. The girl I'm going with is just a friend, though we've been getting really close the past two weeks. But I really want to dance with at least two, maybe three other girls. So I need to know how to slip away from my date for maybe like an hour during a three hour dance.GUYS HELP ME OUT- How to slip away from my date at the dance?
    You don't need a guy. I'm a girl and I can tell you that if you guys are really JUST friends then it's very likely that she wants to dance with other people just like you do. It really shouldn't be a problem. You guys can both dance with other people and stay near each other.

    If you feel like she might be uncomfortable with it, then maybe you can start off by dancing with a girl who she already knows that's just a friend and keep it light. Then move on to other girls from there. Just don't start off your time away from her too heavy if she can see you ;)

    Just please don't ditch her entirely. You guys made plans and it's not like either of you have another date like on some kind of sitcom. Just hang out. Don't be too serious and she probably won't mind unless she likes you. And if she does like you, then she probably should have told you so.GUYS HELP ME OUT- How to slip away from my date at the dance?
    Seriously, you don't have to slip away from your girl. Be a man and tell her you want to ask a couple girls to dance. She is your date and her opinion should matter to you. Friend or not. If she doesn't mind go for it. If she wants you to herself.. you agreed to the date so deal with it. Be a man.
    that's so not the right thing to do but if you really want to just tell her you want to dance wit other people. you should care about how she feels though and i don't think she's going to like that and i wouldn't either.
    I'm not a dude but an honest girl. tell her that you have to go to the bathroom and slip over to another female. it works every time. tell her to dance with her female friend until you get back. then take ur time. :)
    That's mean.

    How do you dance with a girl at a club w/o grinding?

    There is a girl that I like and she doesn't like to grind when dancing. In the event of us clubbing, how do I dance with her without making her feel uncomfortable by grinding? How do you dance with a girl at a club w/o grinding?
    ummm just start grooving having fun. Just straight out dancing infront of her, or something. I cant really explain it, but just move to the music.



    -laterHow do you dance with a girl at a club w/o grinding?
    I really don't know of any other way to dance with someone at a club, I don't really know how she deals with this comfort zone issue.

    Maybe you could try talking to her, maybe she is uncomfortable with dancing in general, I used to be and whoever brought me a drink/an excuse to stop dancing was my saviour.

    How do I dance with a girl at a rave?

    Like, if a girl asks me to dance with her and I say yea, how do i dance with her without making a dik of myself?How do I dance with a girl at a rave?
    I'm guessing to have fun Littleblue? Haha, calm down. Well, you don't want to like, get all up in that, you just go with the flow. Grow a PLUR connection with her. Haha, the best thing to do is give her kandi and talk to her a little. Then dance it off! Best of luck to you man.How do I dance with a girl at a rave?
    SHUFFFFFFFFLE!



    bust out that fancy footwork you dont really need to grind with a girl at a rave? thats like baller parties or some shyttt haha

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    ^^ see how people dance there :)

    %26amp; to whoever said why are u going to a rave...wtf to rave it duh :)
    lol..well it depends on how shes going to dance..if shes the botty shaking touchin the floor, wild child type then dance real close and cool..lol..i got a picture in my head wish i could show you
    Why re you even going to a rave? I guess you just dance.
    Just grind her but make sure she wants to. Grinding is sooo much fun and really easy
    follow her *** with your dick

    I am new to the dance club culture.How do you dance with girls at a dance club?

    I went to a dance party on a cruise once, and I am totally new to this culture in US.Never did it in my home country.So I observed as follows: Many girls would come and want to dance with their backs sticking on to my front and moving to the tune in sideways fashion.I could barely dance as I have no experience dancing with someone stuck on me.Also I would not lay my hands anywhere on her body(which I guess those girls were expecting) ,and kept them in the air most of the times,the only time was where I held on the shoulders.What is this type of dance supposed to be, and how do I handle that the next time it happens?I ain't scared to be dancing like that, but I donot want to be disrespecting any woman by laying my hand off at the wrong places.Please suggest me especially people who do the clubbing quiet often.I am new to the dance club culture.How do you dance with girls at a dance club?
    uhhhh, do what the other dudes are doing?I am new to the dance club culture.How do you dance with girls at a dance club?
    if a girl approaches you to dance and dances with her ';back sticking on to my front and moving to the tune in a sideways fashion';, then go with it, it probably means she wants u to touch her, but start at the waist and see if she moves ur hands i guess.
    if girls dance up on you, then its safe to say putting your hands on them isn't gonna disrespect them..

    just go with the flow, you'll get used to it

    if they dance with you, give them your attention and partner back

    How do I slow dance with a girl I like?

    A girl i really like asked me to her school dance and I've slow danced before but not with a girl i really like. What are some tips for slow dancing and how can i impress her?How do I slow dance with a girl I like?
    Hold her close to you, while still being respectful with your hands placement (i.e. no butt)

    Small comments and questions are great to throw in every so often but let the moment stand for itself-- sometimes just listening to the music and swaying can be the best choiceHow do I slow dance with a girl I like?
    Escort your partner to the dance floor slowly and smoothly, For many couples slow dancing is more about being close to their partner and getting to know each other better. Feel free to talk to your partner, get to know her and pay attention to what she actually says.One more thing that I can think of that will help is to thank you after you dance.
    Actually, she should follow your lead
    follow her lead

    What makes a guy ask a girl to dance?

    What draws a guy to a girl at a dance? Why do they want to dance with her? How do guys like to dance with girls?What makes a guy ask a girl to dance?
    A guy usually asks a girl to dance because he likes her. There really could be no other reason. But sometimes guys don't ask you to dance even if they like you, because they're just too scared.What makes a guy ask a girl to dance?
    uhh,,1.,, because their at a dance maybe? 2.,, cause they dont like danin with men,,,3.,,,depends on the song.
    1)her hot body. 2)her hot body. 3)me personally? grinding (:
    all guys are crap at dancing so the girl has to take control so they guy can just stand there moving from side to side.. be confident
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  • So how do I dance at a club / bar?

    Okay say it's a young bar with a dance floor. Everyone is drunk as anything and a girl dances with me. She grindin and what not do I just stand there and move my chest to the beat? Do I match her butt movements?So how do I dance at a club / bar?
    Well you go up to the girl and grab her hips. Then you and her are touching you know and you move your hips from side the side with her but not putting your butt all at like the girl does it to you. Have fun grindin'! Bye!

    How can i attract a girl in dance class?

    we just started dancing in a roatation. im not great at dancing! should i talk to the girls during dancing?

    and i get nervous when i dance with a girl shky and i mess up alot. and when a girl smiles at you when your dancing does that mean that she is attracted to you? what should i talk about while dancing.

    and how can a attract a girl while dancing! Please Help

    Thanks-How can i attract a girl in dance class?
    smack it up. flip it. then rub it down.How can i attract a girl in dance class?
    Bust a move

    How can I come up with the balls to ask a girl to dance at a club?

    or should I apporaoch the girls in a different wayHow can I come up with the balls to ask a girl to dance at a club?
    Hey, she is already there start talking and then just say hey I love this song, wanna dance? xox

    How does one dirty dance with a girl?

    I tried dirty dancing with a girl the other day and made a complete fool of myself, since I have never done it before. So I have been trying to Google some tips but nothing useful has come up. Can anyone here outline some instructions on how to dirty dance, ways to practice, exercises to help with dirty dancing, etc? Thanks in advance.How does one dirty dance with a girl?
    step one: find a girl

    step two: be patrick swayze

    step three: success!

    How can i slow dance with this girl who is shorter than me?

    I am 6'5 she is 5'1, pretty big difference, with heels though she is prolly 5'4 so its about a 13 inch difference. I really like this girl and want to dance close to her on slow dances but how can we dance like normal couples with such a big difference?How can i slow dance with this girl who is shorter than me?
    Ha.. I totally understand what you are going trough. I'm 6'4'; and I always dance with my friends who are way shorter then I am. Everyone else always think its cute. Sometime I wrap my arms around their waists and pick them up.. ha but i only do this with close friends, IDK how close you two are. Anyway, I just put my arms around her. I rest my hands on her waist. She'll prob reach your chest, which is totally cool. Just be chill and get close to her. Girls like it when they feel secure, and you can demonstrate this by dancing.



    Good Luck Bro.. an just go with the flow.How can i slow dance with this girl who is shorter than me?
    it's not a problem, if she can't reach your neck, she can always put her hands on your chest, that's even more romantic. And if she's your gf, she can stand on your feet, and you can guide her as well ( this is what my bf and I did because i'm a lot shorter than him too). So don't worry too much, good luck ^__^
    You can dance like a normal couple. Just do the same thing you would with somebody your height. I don't see the big problem. I am 5' even and I have danced plenty of slow dances with guys alot taller than me. So I would say just have a good time and don't worry so much :)
    just ignore it. Im kinda shorter than my bf now that i think about it but it doesnt affect us. when you start to dance then it wont matter and what the hell is a normal couple anyway? everyones different, dont be scared of what other people will think of you guys either. Just dance with her...
    i think thats cute, just dance like you would with any other girl, but yea the heels sound like a good idea. I've seen a guy who's 6'3 and a girl who's 5'1 slow dance. they are closer together but if she looks up and he looks down a little its fine. have fun!
    I'm not sure you can. :( Although you can always try. Tell her to wear high heels and you can wear flat-footed shoes to help a tiny bit.



    Haha, I'm 5'4'; and my crush hasn't stopped growing but he's going to be 6'5';. Weird.
    its normal! people at dances always ar elike that. so who cares. Shell just put her arms around your waist. And you around her neck. but you have to look like your hugging/dancing. Or itll look weird.
    lol its good shes shorter. just be normal. and on her waist her hand on your shoulders be as close as possible, if its really that hard for you both put her on your feet!
    as long as you guys have fun, it wont matter.just laugh about it if it gets awkward.
    lol.. my bf is taller than me.. hes 6'2 n im 5'3 n it works out. Just dont stress n do ur thing. RELAX n it will work out.
    :|



    date taller girls...
    lol well who cares...wat matters is that u will b dancing with her!
    Grab her hairy butt, and sway left down and right slowly. dont forget slowly or youll left her up and it will look like your dry humping her.

    How to dance at a high school dance with a girl? Any tips?

    I posted in a bad category before.

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    Besides grinding which I can do how do you dance with a girl when you're face to face. Any tips on dancing in generalHow to dance at a high school dance with a girl? Any tips?
    Theres two ways, but most people go with way #1.



    Way # 1 = When you ask her to dance, you guys walk out to the dance floor. Then, put your arms around her wasite, just above her bum. Then, the sway side to side. You could pull her closer to you, to make it more romantic. Her arms would be around your neck.



    Way # 2 = You put your left hand around her wasite, and your right hand is holding her hair she has her hand on your shoulder, and her other hand is holding yours as well.



    Edit: Oh sorry, i thought you meant slowdancing only aha.

    Well. The boys at my school take the girls hands, and lock thier fingers in thiers, and they just move side to side like the girl. Sometimes they dance like jumping up and down when a song they really like comes on, but thier hand is stil around the girls wasit (from the side, )

    Just flow to the beat of the musicc.How to dance at a high school dance with a girl? Any tips?
    Put your hands around her waist, let your hands dangle on her lower back.



    For slow dancing anyways.
    Dont they teach you this stuff any more......when i was in school, every year without fail, we had fours weeks learning all this kinda stuff....in the run up to our Xmas dance, it was enough to make you cringe, but i remember how to dance to this day!



    im over 30 now!



    i suggest you ask someone a bit older, they will show you some decent sensible moves which wont get you slapped, and can get you to practice them with their help!
    get close put your hand into hers



    put your foot in beetwen hers and go side to side

    try to turn
    Wrap your arms around her waist, pull her close, and she can have her arms around your waist, or neck.. just sway to the rythm and go with the floww =)

    How do I dance with a girl at a club or dance?

    Ok. I like this girl and we txt a lot but I still haven't gotten the courage to talk to her on person cause she is shy ... So am I. Can anyone tell me some good conversation starters and not ones that make me look stupid. Also, I need to know how to dance with her at a dance and a club, maybe a video or something please. We are in high school. I'm 16 and she is 14.How do I dance with a girl at a club or dance?
    you don't dance you grind if your at a clubHow do I dance with a girl at a club or dance?
    Don't do grinding/dirty dancing from the beginning cos girls her age like to look innocent. Just start off with small waves and a ';Hey, how you been?'; if you see her at school. The best opportunity to talk to her is when she's by herself. Just approach her then by saying things like ';Hey, how come you're here by yourself?'; ';Where you off too?'; ';Cool earrings/necklace/braclet: they really suit you.'; ';What you doing after school?'; and so on.
    this should help

    How can I dance with a girl without being impure and immoral?

    Last night I went to a dance, and grind danced with a girl from behind and it was so awesome, but now that i think back on it i know it doesn't agree with my Christian beliefs. How can i dance with a girl, still have tons of fun and still stay pure?How can I dance with a girl without being impure and immoral?
    try ballroom and latin dancing. in reference to the other answer, i don't know how anyone can watch salsa, cha cha, samba, tango, etc... and think sedate and boring. its a lot of fun, you would dance with girls and its more pure and respectful then flat out grinding. i sympathize with you, as i am a young christian ballroom/latin dancer. good luck!

    GUYS, at a club/party etc. how would you like girls to dance?

    I know everyone has their style, opinion so lets hear it. For instance at a club, do you like girls that dance hip hoppish for example or would u rather them freaking you/grinding on you ? What catches your attention? What WOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE ..well how girls dance at a club? And please dont say grinding with other girls, thanks!GUYS, at a club/party etc. how would you like girls to dance?
    With me, duh!!

    How to ask a girl to dance with you?

    I've known her since grade 6 but can't get up the courage to ask her to dance. I think it is finally time to ask her to dance; my grade 9 valentines day dance is coming up; I don't want to ask her out for the whole dance, just during the dance for one song. Anybody have any suggestions?How to ask a girl to dance with you?
    Just go up to her and say ';Hi *name*. Would you like to dance?'; And hold your hand out while asking so you can escort her to the floor. That's a good gentleman thing to do.How to ask a girl to dance with you?
    Hold out your hand and say, ';Hi, would you like to dance?';

    Go ahead and practice it every day from now until the dance at LEAST 50 times a day.
    go up to her with a smile on your face and ask her if she would like to dance with you . dont have a long conversation before asking her cuz that just will make you less likely to ask her if you get straight to the point with nothing holding you back, just go for it :) if someone did that to me i would be happy so say yes. if she says no.. its not the end of the world is it? good luck mate xx
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    I have had this dream for a long time to open a saloon/honky-tonk/nightcl... on the order of the one in Coyote Ugly. I want singing and dancing girls (and of course to be one of them), lots of fun drunks, good drinks and atmosphere, along with loud music! I have no idea how to even go about attempting such a feat, but I vow that I will someday. How much do you think it would cost? Would it be difficult finding reliable help in this sort of industry? Who could I talk to about financing such a prospective business? Would I be able to be a teacher (as I plan) if I owned a place like this - even if it was in another town, county, etc.? Do you think it would be appropriate to do children's parties (I intend on it being more than scantily-clad females) and such there? How do people afford to hire bands every weekend in little places like this? Would it be wise to cater to all types of music/bands or try to focus more primarily on a few specific genres? I like them all, so that'd be tough!How much difficulty do you presume would arise in the making, owning, and operating of a saloon?
    Never been to a Coyote Ugly myself, but the ';Bar-Business'; is rather difficult !! Of course it depends on the state, county, city in which you're dreaming of operating this fine New Establishment...



    Obtaining the SPACE, then configuring it to your needs as well as local ordinances on electrical, plumbing, etc. Obtaining the mandatory Liquor License. Obtaining a license for live music, dancing, etc. Contracts with liquor distributors.



    Depending on your location... probably NOT appropriate for children's parties as in California it's illegal for a minor to be INSIDE a bar !



    You ask if you could be a TEACHER while owning such a place? It all depends on the school district: some folks might not like a teacher who also runs a honky-tonk.



    Of course there is then the time involved... an 8 hour day job and THEN a long night working/managing your place ? Not much time for grading papers and lesson plans !



    I'm sure it CAN be done... and I wish you the BEST of luck !! I love a nice local bar and will buy a round on the tuesday after you open hahaha !How much difficulty do you presume would arise in the making, owning, and operating of a saloon?
    My mother just bought herself a tavern, after wanting to own one for 20 some odd years. So I sure hope you are able to fulfill your dream also. I know hers wasn't cheap, she bought a place that was already established. So patrons were included in the price!!!! Anyways, I know she spends a lot of time at the tavern and when she's not there she spends a lot of time running errands, paying bills, doing payroll, etc. It consumes most of her day. Not just the physical time that she spends in the place. There is a lot of physical and mental stress that consume her day. As far as help is concerned, I know she is having a difficult time with that. I just finished training someone two weeks ago and last week the first day they were late, the second day they never showed up, called after 6 hours of being late and the third day didn't even bother with anything. So the help thing is pretty difficult. She runs her tavern the way she likes it - the music she likes - the food she likes - everything about it is what she likes - after all - she spends the most amount of time there!!!!! Good luck to you in following your dreams!!!!

    How do you ask a girl to dance with you in a club !?

    well tomorrow I'm going to a club with my friends a 18 older .

    they question is how do you ask a girl to dance ..? do ujust ask her or do you approach her from the back and start freak dancing ...



    BEcause that what most clubs be doing the girls like to freak dance ..!



    so yeah what should we do and stuff ???How do you ask a girl to dance with you in a club !?
    THATS WASSUP A FELLOW FREAKER..HAHA..WELL BRO THIS IS WHAT U DO..IF SHE'S ON THE FLOOR ALREADY DONT JUST WALK OVER TO HER AND TRY TO DANCE..SOME WOMEN ARE FUNNY WHEN GUYS DO THAT..INSTEAD START OFF WITH SOME DISTANCE BETWEEN U TWO AND START DANCING ON YR OWN, THEN WHEN SHE MAKES EYE CONTACT WIT U..THEN THATS WHEN U MAKE YR MOVE..P.S IT ALWAYS HELPS IF U HAVE RYTHUM.



    AND PT.2 WHICH HAPPENS TO BE MY FAVORITE, JUST WALK UP TO HER BOOTY AND START FREAKIN!!!



    BUT REALLY IT DEPENDS ON THE TYPE OF CLUB..IF ITS PACKED THEN U CAN JUST WALK UP AND DANCE WITH THEM..How do you ask a girl to dance with you in a club !?
    If she's not already on the floor, walk over make eye contact, and reach for her hand. Of course asking is ALWAYS accepted. In fact, I prefer to dance with guys who ask or lead me onto the floor. Coming up from behind, geez why not polish my butt while you're back there?! That's not really the best way to introduce yourself.
    You really should only freak dance with people who you know well! For a girl you are trying to talk to for the first time ;-) Ask her if she would like to dance, try not to push in between her and her friends tho that one never works!



    Good Luck!
    Just dance near her and be like hey you down to dance? There is no wrong or right way just the way that works the best and gets you the most dances. Every girl is different
    ';Freak Dancing'; :) Made me smile.

    Do u no how to get a boy to ask me to dance with him?

    I'm going to a jr. high dance and most of the girls dance with boys. I'm afraid no boys will ask me to dance and then i'll be the only one without a dance partner. Do u no anyways I can get a boy to ask me to dance without directly asking them?Do u no how to get a boy to ask me to dance with him?
    No offense to guys, but sometimes they don't get the hints. :) If you're by a guy you like or a friend -guy just say, ';I love this song, wanna dance?'; It needs to be direct so they don't just say ';Yeah.'; And say it in a friendly way, not in a desperate way.

    How do i ask a girl to dance with me at a school dance?

    Middle school dance. I'm not sure what to say.. and i think she'll probably say no.. I'm in 7th grade. i don't think she like me..

    meh.How do i ask a girl to dance with me at a school dance?
    Just say u like her and honestly just ask if she'd like to go to the dance with you. and if she says no its not the end of the worldHow do i ask a girl to dance with me at a school dance?
    I think you should just approach her %26amp; go for it. You never know unless you try %26amp; you might regret not giving it a shot.
    Go up to her and say it. Try not to think about it alot of you'll get nervous. The worst thing she can do is say no, and even if she does you'll atleast know you have the ability to ask a girl out.
    Who cares ask her out, if she says no she's not good enough for you.
    bring it up casually say you heard bout the dance on date:_____ then shell b lyk yeah then be like u have a ride she say:________ and if she does say youll bet it will b fun and if she doesnt make a move
    i'm in 7th grade too. so normally the guys just say do you wanna go to the dance with me? hopefully she says yes!!! :)
    Im in 7th grade to and man just start a conversation than ask it worked for me. You could also impress her so she asks u i had succses with that. Pretty much just ask her like '; hey u want to go to the dance tiogether'; good luck

    How do you ask a girl to dance at a disco? (teen advice)?

    Well I am a 14 year old and I have started going to Discos with mates lately. I enjoyed going to them alot but i've never asked a girl there to dance before. I was wondering how you would ask them to dance and what kinda dance you would do.



    No immature replies please. Thanks :)How do you ask a girl to dance at a disco? (teen advice)?
    confidence buddy, there are two ways I can see 1) if you walk up to her and put your hand out and see if she grabs it then you can dance, but dont grab her goodies immediately...2) just start dancing near her and try to make eye contact and see if she smiles back. its too loud in a disco to ';ask'; or ';talk'; to a girl about dancing, its about nonverbal communication and confidence that if she doesnt want to dance with you then its her problem. also, try to bring your female friends with you and start the night dancing with them, then radiate outward, other chicks like to see you with ladies.How do you ask a girl to dance at a disco? (teen advice)?
    just ask i hate it when boys DNT ask things like this yous expect the girls to ask but us girls we per-fer to be asked out.what sort of dance depends on the beat just go with the flow.lol



    no harm in trying
    Just go up to her and comment on what she's wearing or her hair or something and try to strike up a short conversation. then just say ';Hey, would you like to dance?'; And if she says yes then do a fun dance at first, fast movement and jumping and stuff (I've never been to a ';disco'; so I'm not sure exactly what kind of music they play aside from ';disco'; music.) But when or if a slow song comes on pput your arms around her waist or abdomen and just sway back and forth
    I would only dance a slow one with a girl. Girls usually dance with there girls on the fast songs.

    You make some eye contact first and if she looks at you back go for it. Walk up and ask her if she would like to dance, or if you see a girl you like ask her to save a slow dance for you! Good luck

    How to kiss a girl and dance with her?

    I have no ideo how to kiss my girl or slow dance with her i am in 7th grade i really want to can someone tell me



    pleasae don't tell me i am to youngHow to kiss a girl and dance with her?
    You're definitely not too young. But I couldn't tell you step-by-step how to slow dance because im not sure how to either. Lol. I'm sure you've heard of Youtube, so just trying typing in something like ';how to slow dance';. If you do that, im sure you'll find a step-by-step video of how to do it the right way. About the kissing part, you just really have to go with your gut feeling about it. You have to make sure that you are comfortable.You don't want her to end up backing away from you when you are trying to kiss her, so you want to feel that she is comfortable too. Just take it slow. And then just give her a soft kiss on the lips. Don't try to make the kiss fancy or anything, because since you don't know how... she might look at you a little weird. LoL. But take it slow, and everything will just come in it's place. Good luck!

    How do u slow dance with a girl? dance in 1 week. need to know?

    Slow dancing is pretty simple. This is what the guys and girls normall do:



    Guys place their arms around the girls backs. The hands should touch around the girl's lower back, but be careful not to put your hands on her butt.

    Girls would normally put their arms around your shoulders.



    After that, just sway gently from side to side. As you do that, slowly rotate in a circle until the song stops.



    Slow dancing is very nice. If you are still nervous about what to do, look at what the other people are doing and you'll be fine. Good luck!How do u slow dance with a girl? dance in 1 week. need to know?
    she should put her arms around your neck and you put yours around her waist. sway to the beat. chat. knock her off her feet. ;DHow do u slow dance with a girl? dance in 1 week. need to know?
    Uh you put your hands on her hips.

    And she'll put her hands on/around your shoulders.

    And then you just like... move to the music... aha.
    I'm a girl and I love it when guys can dance. So, if it's a dance, stay however far away she stays. Just put your hands on her shoulders and follow her lead if this duznt help u. just relax and don't get too tense. Just stay calm and have fun!
    But your arms around her waist and rest them on her lower back. Let her head rest on your shoulder and place your chin on her head. It's a cute question. Good luck :]
    put ur hands a little above her waist n she puts her hands on ur shoulder n just kinda sway back n fourth.
    You put your hands on her hips and she puts her arms around your shoulders and you slowly turn in circles.

    Good Luck at the dance!!!! Have fun and abstance is the way!!
    she will put her arms around your neck.

    Put your arms around her waste.. she will most likely lead.

    Also, if you like her, try not to so much ';dance'; but cuddle in a way. she will love it. Have fun, good luck.
    ^wat everybodi else said^
    whoa.... good luck
    1 hand on hip the other on the shoulder or up close in a hug type of way
    This is such a cute question.

    Either put your hands around her waist and rest them on her lower back...or take one of her hands in yours and bring it up to your chest, put the other hand around her waist and she will put her free hand around your neck or shoulders :)

    I hope you understand what I meant with that last explanation, good luck!
    WITH YOUR FEET.

    MOVE THEM YOU KNOW?

    SIDE TO SIDE UP AND DOWN.

    JUMP.

    IF YOU WANT, DO THE ROBOT.

    NO MAN, UHH SHOULD HOLD HER ON THE WAIST, AH.

    THEN YOU MOVE.

    OR FALL ASLEEP

    GOOD LUCK MAN

    ;)

    How do you start dancing with a girl in a club?

    I see some people start touching and dancing with girls they do not know in clubs. Is that the right way to dance with a girl?!

    I was always thinking that you have to first ask girls if they wanna dance, but I am afraid that is considered as not having enough confidence.I am confused!How do you start dancing with a girl in a club?
    go into the middle of the dance floor make eye contact with a girl and carefully grab her hips. if she;s interested, she will move closer to you and then just let her do the workHow do you start dancing with a girl in a club?
    yea that's how alot of people do lol that's how it is in our school dances it's like body rolls on guys and they mite like it lol but then you get a hole group of girls around one guy they go freakin crazi lol it's so fun just try it
    grab her bum, flirt, buy her a drink. get her drunk, get ureself drunk so ure b more confident

    How to ask a girl to dance?

    I went to my first dance (10th grade year) and I danced with a few friends that were girls, and I wanted to know how can I ask a girl to dance when shes dancing already with a Friend, (kind of like interrupting) Just what should I say to her when it's a slow dance kind of thing. I want to know this for my next dance.How to ask a girl to dance?
    Just say, ';Excuse me. May I cut in?'; Or ';May I have this dance?'; Make sure you are asking the both of them so that you can get the approval from both people. If you get a yes, you can cut in that way. Good luck!!How to ask a girl to dance?
    just ask polite not loud and rude just be like hello miss can i have this next dance with u.
    if you're slow dancing, ask politely. also a tip: if you're grinding, whatever you do, don't come up behind the girl and grab her really ';low,'; if you know what i mean. i had a guy do that to me at homecoming and i was really uncomfortable!!

    How does a girl get a guy to grind with her/freak dance (however you call it)?

    When a girl starts dancing, a guy chooses to freak with her by grabbing her around the waist and beginning grinding.

    But how would a girl begin dancing with a guy? Step in front of him and begin sorta moving?

    And without being s1utty or anything.

    How would one do this?How does a girl get a guy to grind with her/freak dance (however you call it)?
    Put your rear-end in the vicinity of his genitals. Wait.How does a girl get a guy to grind with her/freak dance (however you call it)?
    Might be old fashioned but ask him to dance...
    shaking you hips would be enough to tempt him.....guys are easy things :)
    if you gotta ask,your too young. btw freaking is by definition being slutty,thats why it's done
    i think you threw all chances of not being slutty out the window with your initial question.
    well turn around and put your a s s on his d i c k and grind that's basically what we did at the 7-8th grade prom well it was acutally a big dance floor and we all just got in a big clump and grinded our a s s e s just have fun



    can you answer mine?

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    If you are in a big group of people go in the middle and dance with your but the direction that people are walking or trying to get through. That is what I did with my friends at the last dance type thing and I got grinded or freak danced four times, so it works.
    Just start dancing on him, no need to ask
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  • Is it wrong for a girl to dance with another guy at a club if shes dating a different guy already?

    my girfriend and i are dating but she finds it weird for us to go clubbing together. is this normal? and is it wrong for her to go dance (grind) with other guys at a club? i personally don't see how this can be right but im looking for what other people think. im not sure if its just me that thinks this.Is it wrong for a girl to dance with another guy at a club if shes dating a different guy already?
    You need to get that whore in line fast, or else tell her to hit the road. My advice; hit it and quit it. A ***** doesn't need a ***** who's going to be grinding on other ******.

    How do I get hooked up with a girl dancing in a night club?

    I often go to night clubs thinking that i might find a girl to have some fun with, and am trying to dance with girls and find one to go out with her. what's your ways guys and what's your preffered ways girl??? please be honest cos this is a real q for me. thanks guys and girls...How do I get hooked up with a girl dancing in a night club?
    I agree with the chick that wrote buy her drinks. You def need to buy her drinks. If you are going to dance with her, don't embarrass yourself. Make sure you know how to dance. For men, it is pretty simple. Just follow her rhythm. Don't hump her back, though. Make sure you give her a little space. Just relax and have fun. If she thinks you are fun, she will stick around. I go to night clubs a lot. There is nothing worse than a boring guy trying to hump your back. The most important thing is to be confident.How do I get hooked up with a girl dancing in a night club?
    buy her drinks all night and treat her respectfully. otherwise she probally thinks your just there for a good time and won't take any interest in you.
    you are relle stupid.

    your a user and abuser.
    well go up to her ask her if she wants a drink then start dancing noce and slow with her ask hey you comin back tomarrow if you are mabey we can eat dinner after !!!
    Night clubs are for PANSIES. They're a bunch of pansy holes! And I'm a Pansy Bashing Marsupial!!



    Okay anywho..



    You shouldn't go anywhere just looking to ';have some fun with'; someone. You should be looking for a long term, communication and commitment based relationship. Not one-night stands. And you definitly should not have sex before marriage. Its wrong and after you're married you'll be ready for it and more mature and able to handle it.



    So my advice to you is to stop looking for extremely short term relationships with few, if any, emotional ties. You should share you're love with extremely one person. Any more than that is not good. It's better to let ALL of you're love be devoted to ONE person so that you're relationship is stronger than it would be with anyone else if you seperate out your love among several people.



    Sorry for rambling on, I hope you read the whole thing.

    How to get a girl to dance with you?

    I always show up to partys for girls but always end up chilling with my friends danceing and getting sweaty so can someone help?I wana know how to get a girl to spend all night with you and how to sneek a kiss.Theres a party tonght and just wana get with a girl instead of chilling with my friends and oh if you got stupid **** to say dont bother cause its not funney i realy need help!How to get a girl to dance with you?
    Just ask her ';Do you wanna dance?'; and if she says no, say okay and then leave.'



    If she says yes, then good. Besides, what's the worst she can say? ';No thanks'; that's all. So don't be afraid to ask. Just try. What have you got to lose?How to get a girl to dance with you?
    Just smile at herfeom across the room, if she smiles back, go over ad ask her to dance, be yourself don't act cool or anything... Hope it works out for u :)

    Btw I am a girl and it would work on me
    Do the thing that you feel good with. I wish for the best.

    My fiance was with a girl b4 me who was a gogo dancing girl who had a kid w/another man. He was court ordered?

    to be sent off to rehab for 1yr so they broke up. When he got back w/in the first week they slept together. She got pregnant and said it was his kid. He found out later that she had cheated on him. An appointment was set up to find out the conception date and he said he slept with her in january but the conception date was sometime in december. They broke up. He got a call from her a month later saying she wanted to know if she could borrow the money for an abortion from his roomate. They agreed and she said she would pay back but hasnt. He went with her to get it done. What I don't understand is why would he go with her to get an abortion if she cheated on him. He told me he used 2 condoms and didnt get off thats how he knew it wasnt his. I told him that doesnt mean anything. He said besides the conception date wasnt around the time they had sex (but how do i know. He said he was just worried about paying child support for a kid that wasnt his. so why did he go w/to make sure its doneMy fiance was with a girl b4 me who was a gogo dancing girl who had a kid w/another man. He was court ordered?
    Wow, what a soap opera. If you aren't comfortable with it don't stay with him.My fiance was with a girl b4 me who was a gogo dancing girl who had a kid w/another man. He was court ordered?
    Sounds to me like he is lying. I would stay away from the situation!!!! Good luck!

    How do girls dance with guys?

    I'm going to a dance and i am wearing this very sexy halter dress and i am really unsure exactly how i am to dance with my date, during fast and slow songs. what am i supposed to do? how should i hold him? ive heard the term grinding, is this something girls do and how do i do this?How do girls dance with guys?
    Well to slow dance with a guy the girl puts her hands on his shoulder and the guy puts his hands on her waist. They just kind of sway. Another way to do it is for the girl and the guy to take one hand out and hold hands into the side. Then they just dance. Also you can just kind of hug him while swaying. You can watch other people dance there and you'll get the hang of it. You can follow his lead, that might help. Just remember to have fun and go with the music. :] hope i helped!How do girls dance with guys?
    ive never heard of girls named doug before..but ok.
    doug... get a life



    haha halter dress on a guy.......
    I will show you how to grind baby!!!!
    Juke it! lol...you tube juke dancing
    just dance like you are having fun, it doesnt matter what ppl think of you of what ur date thinks, but when it comes to the slow songs, just follow the pple around you or follow what ur date is trying to do.
    move along as he does
    just play a sexy song and stare at his eyes and eventually you'll get groove.

    Guys: how would you prefer to be shot down when you try to dance with a girl in the club?

    So i was out with my girls dancing in our circle and my friends brought to my attention that a guy was trying to dance with me behind me and i turned around to see. i wasn't interested in what i saw so i ignored and i think i tried to sort shift my body away. i dunno, it was instinctive and it wasn't until awhile later that i thought about it that it was kind of a ***** move and then i felt bad..but then thinking about it, i dunno any reaction that would be better than what i did? so guys, how would u prefer to be ';shot down';? and for curiosity for girls, how do you react?Guys: how would you prefer to be shot down when you try to dance with a girl in the club?
    What you did instinctively is perfect. Giving someone a hint is a clear message and a graceful way to let someone down in an act communicated entirely through body language. Being more direct would be a ***** move, but at that point he was looking for cues from you, and you gave him a clear answer. You are being too hard on yourself. It can be hard to reject someone, but in this scenario, that is the most polite way to do it.Guys: how would you prefer to be shot down when you try to dance with a girl in the club?
    Well, Johnny's response was odd tho...lol

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    Anything is better than ignoring someone, just tell someone the honest truth, and if they don't respect your decision, then you can be rude to them all you want.
    You should grab him by the balls and squeeze very hard. No guy who dances at a club deserves to have balls anyway.
    since I am a girl that would ask girls to dance, I am going to go ahead and answer.

    The way you reacted seems like a subtle enough hint, I would move away as well.

    Another way would be to start dancing closely with someone else... focus your attention on them... even if they are another female. If the guy doesn't get the hint, ';do you mind, I am a little busy!'; because then he would be being the rude one.
    I think you acted fine. You gave a hint by shifting your body away. You weren't rude.

    How Do I Ask Him To The Dance!?!?

    Theres a dance (this Satuday) at my school and since it is a sadie hockin's dance (girls ask guys) i thought it would be cute to act all shy and nervous when i ask my boyfriend to go with me.

    But im not sure that he will want to go ( its not really his kind of thing)

    But then again i kind of want to just go w/ my friends.

    Would it be rude to not ask him to go?

    Assuming that we would already be going together.

    Do You think he would be offended?

    We are in 9th btw.How Do I Ask Him To The Dance!?!?
    just ask him. ull regret it if u dont. the dance is a special time in a young girls life. and u just gotta roll with the punches and take some risks. okay? good luck,How Do I Ask Him To The Dance!?!?
    i think you should just ask him if he would like to go, tell himm if he doesn't than thats okay w you, you will just go with your friends.. and if he does want to go then just ask him




    yeah you kinda have to ask him to go
    That's good that you want to go. What I do when I want to ask a guy to a dance is just hang out with them a lot and then towards the middle of the week I say,

    ';Hey, are you going to the dance on Saturday?'; and if he says

    ';Yes'; or ';Yeah, why?';

    I would just say, ';Well I was wondering if you wanted to go with me.';



    After that I would just see where it goes from there.



    Hope you have fun at Sadie's and let me know how it goes with you and your bf.



    GOOD LUCK!!! Meg

    How do guys pick a girl to dance with at a party or dance?

    if you were at a dance (a dance with a bunch of different high schools, so it's okay to dance with strangers), would you only go up to the girls who are already dancing and look like they're having fun, or would you go up to a girl who was just kinda standing there awkwardly ??How do guys pick a girl to dance with at a party or dance?
    I go to a ballroom and dance about once a month, and I usually don't bring my fiance because he works. Anyway, the polite thing to do is to approach a girl at the start of a fast dance (not a slow dance because it is too awkward), smile, introduce yourself, and ask if she would like to dance (it also helps if you know how to dance). If she has been sitting around a long time she might be bored and will be more likely to come dance with you. After one dance, walk her back to where you found her and thank her for the dance, then find another girl and repeat. It is easy, no pressure. After a few times you won't even be nervous.



    http://www.ehow.com/how_2326483_ask-girl鈥?/a>How do guys pick a girl to dance with at a party or dance?
    probably to the one that was standing their awkwardly and ask her to dance.
    Eeeny, Meeny, Miney, Moe....
    i think the 3rd choice would b to pick the one that has the highest chance to say yes and is at least somewhat attractive

    I'm a girl--how do you dance like your in a club? HELP!?

    i just came from a sweet 16 party, filled with 15-21 year olds. im only 14 and her sweet 16 party was on a party bus. everyone was dancing really good to hiphop music. all the girls danced like they were in a club. i felt embaressed dancing! please send videos to teach me how to dance like that, not break dancing and stuff.

    please send videos or tell me what to do or how to shake my hips, please be specific.



    help is greatly appreciated!I'm a girl--how do you dance like your in a club? HELP!?
    The best thing that you can do is work on feeling comfortable in your own body. Dance around the house, dance in front of the mirror, dance everywhere! If you feel more comfortable, go on You Tube and pick up some of the moves that people are doing in the background of music videos (look for the ones set in clubs). If you stand with your feet shoulder width apart, you can move your hips freely. Don't concentrate too hard, just have fun! That is the most important part of dance.I'm a girl--how do you dance like your in a club? HELP!?
    go to your local library and get videos that's what i do but i already knew how to it just taught me some new dance moves so try that just move your hips and your butt to the beat remember rhythm is the key.

    Ok so im 14 girl..dance question..guy...and..oh man you should answer..?

    ok so im a freshman in highschool and on friday we had a dance and i danced with lots of guys and stuff..grinded them..but is it more intimate if you do it facing each other and you have your hands around his neck an your close? there was this guy that i was doing that with and he is a sophmore i met at lunch one day and he winked and waved at me at the football game and then he grabbed my arm in the dance and we started dancing like that and his face was SUPER close to mine and his head was kinda tilted so i was wondering if he wanted to kiss..cuz if he did i didnt haha cuz someone inturrupeted our little dance together....anyways what does it mean when a guys asks to dance with you, when he dances with you does the dance mean anything....and i have never had a boyfriend or kissed so i was a little afraid to kiss him but i didnt...so anyways answer my questions duudees...and how the heck do you kiss so they enjoy the kiss too? do your lips just collide do they just touch do you what the heck do you do?! annsswwerOk so im 14 girl..dance question..guy...and..oh man you should answer..?
    usually guys only ask girls they are interested in to dance, so yea there prbly is some attraction, and yea its more intiomate if u dance face to face as long as t is close and not like u standing a foot from him, and when it comes to kissing, its comes naturally jus do it and it will come to uOk so im 14 girl..dance question..guy...and..oh man you should answer..?
    Yeah he's into you

    %26amp; when he turned his head, did he lean in? if he did, then he was trying to kiss you.

    and when kissing somebody, it just comes naturally



    hahaha i'm 14 too, homecoming's soon for me, and i'm flirting with this one guy (;

    i was stressed out about my first kiss too, but don't kiss just anyone, have your first be special



    for the romantic dance, was it a slow song or was it a song with a fast beat?

    slow song = face to face

    fast beast = grind
    I really don't like your choice of dance but I know its popular. It always makes me think that its a vulgar way to dance with anyone. Your only 14 so don't freak out about not knowing how to kiss. Do a web search and you will find some good advice there. Its difficult to say what your dance pardner was thinking but I wouldn't care what he thought. I wouldn't kiss anyone unless I found them attractive and interested. Kissing anyone and every one is not a good ideal no matter what the reason is. Just have fun at those dances and enjoy your friends . Don't do anything you'll regret later.
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  • Tall Girl dance shoes?

    I'm 5'8'' and only 16.

    My height makes me very uncomfortable, and people always think I'm like 18-19 and it really bugs me. I'm kinda skinny to like only 111 and that makes me look even taller.I even try to dress younger, wear conservative clothing, but people still think I'm older.

    ..I also dance alot. so....

    I really wanted some shoes that don't add to much height.

    I LOVE 50's wing tips for girls, but I can't find any that don't add a couple inches. Any other dance shoe recomendations would be great!

    (I wear jazz shoes, but when I wear it with a skirt or jeans, it makes me look like akward...I'm not sure how to explain it....just to tall and skinny I guess, kinda lanky)

    Thanks so much!Tall Girl dance shoes?
    5'8'; is really not that tall! I'm 13 and 5'6';, so I kind of understand what you're talking about. It can kind of get annoying, but really, the only one who really notices it or really cares about it is YOU. So about the shoes, there are certain stores that specialize in dancewear that have dancing shoes with about 1/2 inch heel shoes. You can usually look them up on Google. Good Luck!

    Dance? How did you become so talented? Were you a poor dancer?

    In my CCA, there is a talentime competition and some of us volunteered to do traditional malay dance. Mind you, i'm not Malay. So, the Malay dance girls(CCA) taught us some steps and halped us with the songs. And it's like i'm a nooo good dancer, and i don't want to back out of this thing now, yet whatever steps i do id weird and no one really wants to help me. I missed one session and well, my yearmates aren't really helping, more of criticising, saying that they look weird. I am not a good dancer, no talent in dance etc. So, how do i improve? I've tried practising yet....well, no visible improvement, competition is in March...i don't know what to do, is there any way to turn into a good dancer overnight? =) Just joking. How can i improve when no one offers help? Please tell me.

    Please. =)

    I need all the help i can have.Dance? How did you become so talented? Were you a poor dancer?
    when you dance, put all you've got into every move. don't hold back. use all of your emotion, feeling, and being into each move. a step can be sharper, a foot can be more pointed, a leg can be higher. do all you can at that time and make sure you're doing YOUR best without worrying about how it compares with the other people.



    being a good dancer has a lot to do with confidence.

    i am not a good turner. we were doing allesacon fouettes into an allusion and a leg catch turn. i could not do it when i asked for help and when i saw how perfect everyone elses were. but when we did the whole dance, and i had all of the adrenaline and knew that no one was watching to see if i was doing terribly, i pulled it off.



    just try not to worry about what other people are thinking when you're dancing and you'll see a great improvement.





    *also do the obvious things and STRETCH AT HOME.Dance? How did you become so talented? Were you a poor dancer?
    You really need to calm down....stress is not going to help you at all...and for goodness sake don't stop practicing you may not see the results now...but trust me you will soon enough..!Second of all...I wasn't born with a discernible talent as well but years of practice and persistence can work magic...it all has to do with how bad you want it...don't let the comments from those girls take their toll on you..instead try to prove them wrong!Do your best...believe in yourself!There is no actual piece of advice I can give you but constant practice...do the steps again and again and again until you are satisfied with the result...if you do that everyday you're gonna knock them dead for sure..!Best of Luck!



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    well just remember that you need to practice practice practice! Practice until you improve! There isn't anyway you can turn a good dancer overnight, just like pushpanjali said some people are naturally talented in dance! You can becom a good dancer overnight most of the dancers you see on tv or in the music/dance industry have been dancing for years but you have to BELIEVE that you can improve and become a better dancer if you cant believe that you're improving or try to put effort in improving you wont. Basically you need to PRACTICE!!
    try hard every class push ur self and practice or privet lessons will help
    Continue practicing! Some people have the natural ability to dance, and some people need to work a bit harder. You can't expect to see results in one day, but by March you can be really good if you practice. You KNOW what specific steps you have problems with, so ask for help when you have rehearsal. Have you asked the Malay girls for extra help?
    just tell them you need help and that you don't want to make a fool out of yourself. also remind them that if you look stupid so do they and you probably won't win the competition. be blunt and direct but still polite. don't take no for an answer, but also don't be rude about it cuz it won't make them want to help anymore than they do now. if they don't want you to ';look weird'; than they should help you so that you don't. and also, practicing will help. you may not see improvement immediately but don't stop because practicing really is important even if you don't think it's helping. it'll help you to remember your dance, come time to compete. the more you practice, the more natural it will come to you and the less you'll have to think about it. best of luck!

    What is your worst date experience? I once took a girl to a hip downtown blues club. She was from?

    Eastern Oregon where hip meant you shook the cow poop off of your boots before you walked in. Curtis Salgado and the Stilettoes (no idea how to spell the word) were playing. They were hip and urban and she was in a fetal position when she saw girls dancing with other girls(not unusual. Guys take awhile to warm up and Portland is a user friendly city.There was no second date.What is your worst date experience? I once took a girl to a hip downtown blues club. She was from?
    My worst date was going to a Kiss concert. I went for my best friend's sake - she couldn't go with her boyfriend unless it was a double date so I went with her guy's best bud - who was crude -to put it mildly. We sat in front of an amplifier so we definitely heard everything. I was more into bands like Chicago. It was a bit traumatic. ;-)What is your worst date experience? I once took a girl to a hip downtown blues club. She was from?
    My worst ever experience on a date happened when I took Hilda Pendergrast to see ';Tony and the Tone Deafs';in Atlantic City. We drove 87 miles to '; The Pier ';, only to find out the ';PIER';, had been destroyed by fire the summer before.Since we had driven so far, I pulled into a sleazy bar that was featuring ';Della and the Doomsday Dragons.'; The cover charge was two tatoos and a nose ring. $100.00 got us in anyway. We met a couple ( Sodom and Gonorrhea ) who insisted we join their table. After three nights in jail and three weeks of medicinal support, we broke up. Hilda no longer has to pay a cover charge! And I am sterile.
    Although they exist, we Oregonians do not support gay rights/marriages.
    uhm lol i have too many to even start lol.

    How do I dance in a club?

    As a guy, I've been to a couple of clubs but most of the time it's just the girls dancing and the occasional creeper who pops in and starts grinding, only to be left alone after the song is over.



    Besides just going with the flow, what are some basic moves I could string together on the dance floor? I've heard all it takes is confidence but I'd be a lot more confident if I had a better idea of what I was doing.How do I dance in a club?
    Don't let your elbows out, keep them close to your side. It helps keep you looking less retarded.



    Or take a hip hop or break dancing class, since that style of dance is more acceptable for males.



    Really the most important thing is to dance on beat with the music, and don't overdo your movements. But if you don't care how you look, just dance how you feel you want to and have fun. :)How do I dance in a club?
    Well I went to the club and basically danced with every single hot girl there. Unfortunately I'm pretty sure my confidence (and dancing skill?) came from the alcohol I had consumed.

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    Good question, I think generally speaking guys find it harder to dance in a club and generally look better if they don't go crazy, but keep movements small - see Hitch - Will Smith teaching 'Albert Brennaman' screen name.

    Girls on the other hand seem to be a natural at it.
    In a club? You could bend back and then spin and then....you just kinda start grooving. It's great when guys start to dance.
    It really depends on the type of music.



    I always preferred rave clubs for dancing - the beat is simple to follow, and you can just kind of jump around and do whatever you want. (Plus you can dress like a freak).



    Most dance clubs suck really badly - unless they have a decent DJ. Anyplace that plays top40 crap is a waste of time to even go into if you are wanting to have a good time dancing.



    You can look like a real dork attempting to dance, but as long as everyone is doing it - you can kind of watch other people, or just do your own thing. It can be a lot of fun - again, it mostly depends on what kind of music they are playing (and what kind of music you like).



    I got out of clubbing a while ago - but I still go out to see bands play. I've seen the Melvins and the Reverend Horton Heat recently - both shows were in a small club, and the crowds were psychotic. I always jump right into the pit and start slamming around. I had some guy nearly knock his front teeth out on the back of my head at the last show.
    dont do a lot. just sway from side to side. let the girls do the dancinggggg XD
    the same way everyone else does when they go out clubbing. If is a Salsa Club, you dance Salsa and Merengue. Do not do the Vogue %26amp; act like Madonna OK!. They don't that anymore!!!!
    Assuming they're not doing hip hop, I have some advice that'll sound stupid. Take ballroom lessons. No, you won't be doing a waltz at a club, but the Latin dances will teach you some moves that translate pretty well, and the connection and lead you learn will make you a sought-after dance partner in the clubs. Plus you'll have the confidence that professional training an experience can impart.
    Shake that *** ***** %26amp; let me see what you've got! Dance with a ugly or fat girl for practice. It'll build your confidence 2. Lean back brotha!

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    How do i make a mix cd to dance to!?

    Trying make a mix cd like the dance team girls dance to how do i customize my own with my own music!How do i make a mix cd to dance to!?
    they probably won't even look



    if you want you can bring a big purse and then put pads/tampons on top of it, then keys underneath so it'll be hard for them to find it......

    How to convince a girl to dance with you at the year-end party?

    How to convince a girl to dance with you at the year-end party?

    How to convince a girl to dance with you at the year-end party?

    Given situation:

    You and her are fourteen

    You like her so much

    You have been very kind to her



    Should you just wait for her to ask you first?

    Or should you just keep it to yourself and see another boy asking her first?How to convince a girl to dance with you at the year-end party?
    Just ask her to dance. Do not worry about convincing her. If she has to be convinced, she is not worth it. She will be honored if you are the first to ask her.



    If she has happened to promise the first dance to someone else, then ask her if you can have the second dance.



    Good luck.How to convince a girl to dance with you at the year-end party?
    You should ask her first. Just ask, don't beg or guilt her into it. A guy who is too eager is a turn off for girls and so is a guy who is too shy. Try to find a healthy balance and good luck!
    There will always be more than one dance, if another guy gets there first, then get over it and be sure to ask quicker for the next song. Guys should always ask the girl, unless the girl is madly in love with you she probably won't ask, though that is not to say she dosn't like you. Go for it! Be confident and it will pay off.
    No, if you like her you should not wait for her to ask you to dance as many girls are shy to approach a guy for a dance, but since you know her already, why don't you just go up to her and start a conversation then ask her to dance.



    Good LUck and have fun
    Just go up to her and say '; You look very pretty tonight, ( hold out your hand to her so that she can put her hand in yours) may I have this dance?';
    Wait till the dance. Then go over and ask her. Don't think too much about it. It is just a chance for a dance. If you think too much about it you will be creepy and she won't like you. If you treat it as just a dance, that is your best chance.

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    I suggest that even before the party, you should talk to her and ask her you would like to dance with her at the party and get her to promise you a dance.

    Is it bad to like or want only one girl to dance with at prom?

    I mean as a guy I never did go for the be with as many girls as possibly Male Quota!

    If I only want one girl to dance with at prom would that be a bad idea is my question.

    Seems faithful right!



    How confusing all this school ad girls %26amp; dating is!Is it bad to like or want only one girl to dance with at prom?
    nah dude its not bad especially if its your gf thats just being loyals and if they know there the only one u wanna dance wif it make em feel specials

    How to grind with a girl at dance?

    earlier at my dance some girl asked me if i wanted to grind with her but i got no idea how to so i chickened out and walked away because i didnt know how. how do i grind with a girl at a dance for next time?How to grind with a girl at dance?
    just go up behind he and put your crotch on her backside. chances are you will get hard but pretend you dont notice. let her do all the work and hold her hips with you hand and keep your hips following her every move. i know it sounds wrong but i went from being a terrible dancer to a complete star on the dance floor from having my friend explain it this wayHow to grind with a girl at dance?
    As the guy you don't do much...put your hands on her hips, move yours some and mostly let her do all the work. I always got irritated when the guy was too...i don't know, forceful, in his grinding because he kept pushing me forward. haha
    Haha. You don't really have to do anything. Just stand behind her and enjoy yourself. You can sway a bit if you like, but it's not completely necessary. Just, please don't grind on her. That's... well, gay.

    At a party if i see a group of girls dancing, how can i dance and get their numbers respectfully?

    At a party if i see a group of girls dancing, how can i dance with them and get their numbers respectfully? Step by step or what to say would be nice, thank u =]At a party if i see a group of girls dancing, how can i dance and get their numbers respectfully?
    Well you don't want to get their numbers so soon. You need to get to know them first and hopefully, let them know you and you try to know them. They will not give numbers to strangers so act like you're not a stranger, and sometimes, you need to actually go on a date with them for them to give you their number.



    Remember that you won't look very trusting if you just approach them and ask for their numbers. Especially if they have seen the movie, Taken.

    How do you ask a girl to dance with you?

    Should you come from behind her and start grinding or ask if its okay.

    Im not sure on what to do. This is my second dance. The first one i left becuase every guy was dancing with a girl except for me and some guys on the bleachers. This one is my homecoming. Im scared becuase i only know some the ninth graders. I want to dance with alot of girls but alot i dont know. The homecoming's to night. Should i not go and wait till next year.How do you ask a girl to dance with you?
    Go!!



    Watch for a moment. You do whatever the other guys are doing.



    But GO!How do you ask a girl to dance with you?
    you should go!!!! uh don't just start grinding on random chicks though, thats creepy. . .

    just be like hey wana dance kinda deal. it will be fine
    Just go up to a girl and say ';would you like to dance'; Try and meet some more girls and suggest you dance at the homecoming beforehand or ask some of the guys who are dancing how they did it.
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  • How to invite a girl to dance?

    Dancing with a girl that has caught your eye in a club can be difficult. Its loud, full of people and hard to move around. Do you feel nervous to dance with a girl, scared of a possible rejection, or just don't know what to do?How to invite a girl to dance?
    just go up behind a girl who's already dancing and rub up against her until you have a good chub they really like that.How to invite a girl to dance?
    watch this and do what he does:



    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yUSVUYFUF鈥?/a>
    how to invite? ask her, just try, even she rejected you, atleast you had tried
    Ok me being a girl would definantly know that a girl will never turn you down. Go up to her tap her on the shoulder and ask, ';Would you like to dance?'; But don't be nervous and act very romantic, offer your hand and just have fun with it!

    You can find more at this web :

    http://free-girls-video.blogspot.com/2009/05/how-to-dance-with-girl.html

    Whatever you want to find girl to dance or marry : )
    just walk up to her and ask... if she says no theres plenty more girls to ask. and most likely all the girls n the club go to dance! so ask!

    GUYS, What was it about a girl that caught your attention?

    I'm just curious what kind of answers will come up.

    I was just on the phone with my best guy friend and he was telling me about how he was at a party and he saw this girl dancing. She wasn't the prettiest girl and she didn't have the cutest outfit, but he said he was so attracted to her confidence and creativity. He said she looked so free out there on the dance floor and it caught his attention.



    I'm hoping for answers like that!GUYS, What was it about a girl that caught your attention?
    Much like your guy friend I too am attracted to confidence and someone who looks like they are a creative, artistic person. I also am really attracted to funny, extroverted women. Those shy ';mysterious'; ones I am usually not as interested in. I like a girl who is comfortable with herself and likes to have fun.



    Beyond that, I am pretty much the typical male. I don't like women too skinny or too thick, a little curvy is just perfect. I like healthy hair, minimal makeup. I am not attracted to any particular hair, skin or eye color over the other. Mostly I am just looking at the overall package. Lots of men like big breasts and while I don't mind them, I much prefer a nice butt. I am not particularly into implants, my ex had them and they feel weird and look all scarred up etc. I like 'natural' looking girls and I'm not into anything too fake looking.



    As far as general things that catch my eye, I have a lot of tattoos so if a woman has good tattoos or piercings that's something I tend to notice too. I have been with tattooed women and women with none and I like both. Really I don't have a ';type'; I go for, I have a wide taste range when it comes to women!GUYS, What was it about a girl that caught your attention?
    breasts
    People naturally seek out HEALTHY people as mates, ya know, people who can outrun predators and pro-create, and reproductive traits such as creativity %26amp; confidence definitely qualify. That's my reasoning.
    I like a girl who can make me laugh. Someone who has a sense of humor and doesn't mind being silly.
    Pretty girls are everywhere. It's personality that get's my attention.
    I don't think a girl has to have the hottest body, but one thing that catches my attention is pretty eyes.
    im mostly attracted to NICE BREASTS!!!!!!!!!!
    Her charisma and her brain. She blows my mind like everyday. Its so sexy.
    face n smile
    Guys usually look at face first.
    Big, fat, luscious, pv$$y lips!
    A girl that is happy being the way she is. I remember once this girl who kept trying to be better than other girls at a party. Just the fact that she was trying so hard, even when it wasn't obvious to her, pushed guys away.



    One thing that I truly attracts me about a girl is when she is genuinely happy and having fun (not drunk and going crazy). You see that in the way she walks, the way she looks at you, the way she smiles... It's what attracted me to my girlfriend. You can't beat what the eyes and a smile can tell you, I guess there would confidence too, but not overconfidence ( a girl thinking she can get with everyone and acting like she can do better than what she really can)

    How do you get a girl to dance with you and kiss if you're gay?

    I'm attracted to guys, but I want to get a girl to dance with me close and kiss and hug her the way guys do to their girlfriends in dance floor in the clubs/bars. How can I do this? I also want to do it, but make it clear that I am just friends with the girl.How do you get a girl to dance with you and kiss if you're gay?
    First of all your gay so why do u like girl? and friends arent really there to make out with youHow do you get a girl to dance with you and kiss if you're gay?
    friends dont do that, so come out of the closet and do that with guys.
    Get a hooker...they'l do anythin wit anybody haha
    that's not what gay guys do. they would have no need nor desire like you do. this would serve no purpose at all. so i guess, you don't
    haha . your gay. HAHA
    i have a gay friend too and we dance and kiss but not crazy kiss only once in a while wen we are drunk lolz just get a close friend of yours and do it she wont mind kuz ur friendz :)

    How to ask a girl to dance with you in Homecoming?

    What's a good line to say when your asking a girl to dance with you? I would like to know a unique line or a saying that makes the girl attracted to you?How to ask a girl to dance with you in Homecoming?
    Wana Dance? Really a girl is more intrested in the fact that your willing to cast aside your discomfort for her than a silly pick up lineHow to ask a girl to dance with you in Homecoming?
    take a tip from a girl....



    honestly if you have the courage to walk up to a girl and say

    ';hey would you like to go to homecoming with me?'; is all you have to say. Dont be to laid back and chill about it or she will think ur just asking her to hav a date but dont try to hard because then she is gonna wanna laugh.

    or you can compliment her first lik

    ';you kno i've never noticed before but your eyes are really ____'; and after she smiles and says thanks say ';so anyways, i was hoping you would go to the homecoming with me';

    just smile and be yourself because there is nothing worse then being fake or a jerk!!!! treat her the same way all the time even if your with your friends.

    and wen u hug her make sure your hands go right on her waist or around her waist. make you hug firm but soft. =D good luck and let me know wat happens!!!!!
    'will you go to the dance with me'?

    thats all you need to say lol.

    How do i ask a girl to dance?

    Theres this girl at my school who is really hot. We both play waterpolo and are in the same homeroom but we never seem to talk. She added me as a friend on facebook, but we dont talk. At the last dance, her friend asked me and my friend to dance with them, but we didn't really interact after that. The next dance is coming up, and I need some tips. Thanks guys.How do i ask a girl to dance?
    Just ask when no one's around. Hey would you like to go the ance w/ her?

    12 year old girl + dance party- dance= ???? ( dont know how to dance) help!?

    im 12 yrs old n a gal (aka that means girl!!!)..... and i have a dance party coming up at skool

    but i dont know how to dance at all!!!!

    i dont want 2 look stupid cuz im the person who is really hyper

    do u get it?

    and i dont want to dance with a boy

    just like with my friends or alone

    soooo wat are some dance moves i can practice??????????????????? (like remeber lily and miley in hannah montana dancing together instead of jake)12 year old girl + dance party- dance= ???? ( dont know how to dance) help!?
    ummm, go on http://www.youtube.com/ and search for dance lessons on there like soulja boy tellem for superman and spiderman, there's other songs you can search too, I hope you do ok, i don't know how to dance either, i just stand with my friends in a big circle and i just do what they do, even though i might look stupid, i don't care cuz i'm having fun, i don't care what people think of me..12 year old girl + dance party- dance= ???? ( dont know how to dance) help!?
    dont worry just try to move ur feet to the beat and just have fun i cant dance and i have school dances all the time =]
    just jump up and down cause thats what ppl basically do.

    good luck
    I know what u mean, you'll just have 2 do what ever comes 2 u when ur out there that's what i did. and now i know how 2 dance,
    lol

    I'm 14 and trust me, you dance a MILLION times better than me.

    If you don't want to look like an idiot just move your feet from side to side and kind of sway while listening to the music.

    You'll just look like you're not bothered, which is better than lookinig like you don't know how to dance.
    Just do what every1 else is doin. little booty shake etc! have fun and don't be embarrassed of dancing with boys, slow dancing is easy!

    How do you ask a girl to go to the dance with you?

    It sounds like becoming an issue for me. I am very much interested in dancing with girls, and often go to night clubs, but most of the times it happens that I am dancing alone. The problem simply is that I just don鈥檛 know how to ask a girl dance with me or how I should realize if she is interested.

    Is there any special rule in night clubs?

    A few times I have asked some girls if they want to dance with me and I was rejected. I am just wondering if the way that I approached them was awkward or they were not totally interested in dancing.

    I also have occasionally noticed that when a girl is dancing, a guy approach her and they start to dance together without any talk in between. I have tried that too, but the girl was surprised and step back from me.

    I should mention that I have been described as handsome and good looking by my friends, but also shy. Is it my shyness that put girls off of me?How do you ask a girl to go to the dance with you?
    ';Wanna dance?';



    Your welcome :D

    How would a capricorn feel if a girl did this to them?

    How would a capricorn feel when a girl dance in front of them?? Lets say they're friends



    Like when they're alone with a girl in a dress, and she just dance cheerfully in front of him. Like playfully, but NOT in slutty or sexual way.



    Would he feel weird out or what??? How would a capricorn feel if a girl did this to them?
    well if it is playfully then what would even cause him to feel uncomfortable? if you did shakira hip swings in his face that would be a whole different ball game. try to find out if he's attracted to you, and if he is, SKIP the whole playful business and flirt a little. if he likes you then he will def enjoy a quick little display of your moves. but not in public, they are very much a ';lady on the streets'; type of guy. hope this helped. my ex is a cap. ;]

    How would a capricorn feel if a girl did this to them?
    He will feel great.Go past sun sign and look at full horoscope for marriage compatibility.

    To find out more on marriage compatibility visit blogs at

    http://www.decisioncare.org/ and

    http://www.loveselect.org/



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    If they were friends and he had no attraction for the girl, he would likely feel uncomfortable.
    I'd imagine he'd like it. Of course he'd probably not show it, maybe just with a little smirk.

    If two girls are dancing together at a club, how would you approach one of them to dance?

    lot's of girls dance together at clubs, but if you wanted to go and dance with one of them what would be the best way to do it when they are dancing with there friend?If two girls are dancing together at a club, how would you approach one of them to dance?
    If you see two girls grinding with each other this is a great opportunity. Squeeze in between them and grind normally with the one in front of you. The girl behind you will put her hands on you hips and grind with you from behind. this is called a sandwich.



    good luck, hope this helps!If two girls are dancing together at a club, how would you approach one of them to dance?
    Being female my self, i can tell you that girls dance together when they don't want to be bothered by guys! Sorry! It's a defence mechanism, we see ya coming and if we don't like the look of you we grab out friend and use them as a kind of human shield!!

    Sorry Dude!
    Wait till they both sit down and approach the one of your choice.
    just wait till one of them sits down or gets a drink , and then make your move

    Females: How do you choose which guys you want to dance with in the club?

    Just something I was wondering. I was at the club last night and I always see girls dance with some guys and reject others. I dance a lot and am a pretty confident guy so i'm not looking for tips or anything... just curious because the same girl that rejects one guy will dance with the next guy that tries.



    Do you all have a criteria or something that the guy has to meet? Or is the approach maybe?Females: How do you choose which guys you want to dance with in the club?
    Its really about the girl. My preference is that I HATE guys who are too cocky, or too insecure. If I see a guy not knowing how to dance, it makes me hope he doesn't ask me, cause guys, you DO have ego's and I hate babysitting those ego's. Sounds awful....also I don't like to be grabbed by some kid thinking he is a pimp and grinding his tic-tacs against me. Sluts go for that, yes. Not a girl you want to get to know :)



    When all is said and done for, no one really knows why some people say no or yes, unless ya ask them specifically :)Females: How do you choose which guys you want to dance with in the club?
    I'm not much of a dancer, but when I have been dragged out on the floor, it's because I really thought it would be a safe dance. One guy I had known for some time and had recently moved back - this was the first time in over a year that we'd seen each other. He just came up behind me and carried me out to dance. Another guy some time later kept staring at me and finally came over and asked me to dance. After he kept asking, I finally went and danced with him. When I decide to dance with someone, I make sure I have kind of watched them dancing prior to asking me. If he's been dancing with all kinds of girls and grabbing them and being nasty, then I won't give him the time of day. I don't want to be another tramp that he gets to feel up on the dance floor in front of the whole place. I'm married now so I don't have to worry about this whole mess any longer!
    I just kind of look around for a guy who's cute..



    It really depends on the girl.
    by how sexi he is i and the way he approaches me and talk to me like a me like a woman
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  • What should i do if im a girl dancing alone at a club?

    i want to go dancing but i cant always get someone to go with me. how should i dance and where on the dance floor works well to get a guys attention? like in the middle or by a wall?What should i do if im a girl dancing alone at a club?
    In the middle of the dance floor is the best way to get a guys attention or somewhere around the middle of the dance floor

    If a girl dancing near you at a club brushes against you a few times, does she want to dance with you?

    This happened to me at a night club, that was kind of crowded, but it seems like she may have did it on purpose. I felt a little scared about doing the same thing to her, because I thought she would get mad. However, I thought maybe that is how girls let you know they want to dance with you, sometimes.If a girl dancing near you at a club brushes against you a few times, does she want to dance with you?
    if she bumped into you and kept walking, no. if she turned or said sorry or smiled or something along those liness then it was bc she was interested. go with your instincts so you dont have to regret the what ifs

    Whats the moive this dance moive called with a guy and a girl??

    This guy and this girl dance together and the guy was not a good kid but he new how to dance and he broke into a school and he found out it was like a musical school and there was a girl that dance and he ask to be in her dance team. HE had to wear tights. He found out about the school because he had community services in thereWhats the moive this dance moive called with a guy and a girl??
    Step UpWhats the moive this dance moive called with a guy and a girl??
    taske the lead
    i'm pretty sure its called ';step up';
    step up, hope i helped :)
    Definitely NOT ';Take the Lead';!

    How am I suppose to dance at a 'formal' dance?

    A girl asked me to dance, and I'm terrible at dancing. Apparently it's 'formal', but people still grind anyway. However, I doubt this girl dances that way. With that in my mind, I really don't know how I should dance. I don't want her just sitting down the whole time at the dance you know? I mean sure we'll slow dance and do the dances where the songs tell you what to do, but what about the other 200 songs =/. Suggestions?How am I suppose to dance at a 'formal' dance?
    Don't assume she won't grind, I've been surprised a few times.



    Otherwise I'm assuming formal doesn't mean actual ballroom dances (waltz, swing, tango,etc) that you have to know the step to. As long as you're bouncing to the beat AND (and I mean AND) making some sort of physical contact, you should be fine. You have to get yourself to do it, it is fun, hold hands or SOMETHING while you dance.How am I suppose to dance at a 'formal' dance?
    You could try not to be too stiff and learn how to move with the beat.

    How to start grinding with a girl?

    If at a dance u see a girl dancing, and u want to grind with her, what do u say? Then after u grind with her when do u stop and how do u ask her for ur number?How to start grinding with a girl?
    hey you wanna dance

    when the song stop you stop

    Hey can i have your numberHow to start grinding with a girl?
    well for me most guys don't ask they just walk up and start dancin with me...but if u don't feel comfortable doing that just walk up to her and ask her if she wants to dance...once your dancin with her u stop when the song stops or wenever she stops...as far as asking for her phone number i would say wait til you've danced with her a few times and actually talked to her a little bit to feel her out and see if she's interested then before da party is over tell her you had a good time and wanted to kno if you could get her phone number...
    If it were me I would wait until a guardian or a parent is not watching and you should make your move. Then the time you should stop is when the guardian or a parent almost turns around and stop. To get my number you have to ask.
    Lol. Start a grind-line and just 'Fortunately' get stuck behind her. That way, if it doesn't fly, you got another chick behind you..Hopefully. Lol.



    If it works,simply ask her for it. ;D
    u don't ask just do, ask her to dance tho. dont just go up to her and get up all on her and freak her out. if she doesnt like it stop. if she does then yes ask for her number?
    you drop your trousers

    then she drop hers

    then just start grinding away



    be careful if its her first time cause it might hurt.
    u tryin to grind, you don't say anything..just walk up and start grinding the girl...

    Can you dance? Girls, men, who taught you? Do you like dancing? Why?

    I learned to dance in 6th grade grammar school. Absolutely hated it. Always stuch with a girl a foot taller than me. I began to enjoy dancing while in the Army. Danced with Jayne Mansfield once. Danced with a film reknown Persian belly dancer named Sharahzad at 35. I love to dance not that I'm fancy. Slow dance with bodies close. I love the graceful movement of my partner. At best I don't step on feet and actually know how to lead. Sure would love to dance like the contestants on TV though.Can you dance? Girls, men, who taught you? Do you like dancing? Why?
    I would like to think I can dance lol :)



    I was enrolled into Tap, Jazz and ballet when I was 3 years old at the local dance studio. From there I have developed and learn Contemporary and Pointe. I also do Tap, Jazz and Ballet exams.



    To this day I'm not even sure why I love dancing so much. But I believe that everybody is born with a talent and I think I have found mine and if I haven't I'm pretty close to it.



    I loved the way you used those words in your details section, really beautiful :)Can you dance? Girls, men, who taught you? Do you like dancing? Why?
    I think dancing's awesome.



    And girls generally like guys who can dance. That's always a good thing. =)



    I learned when I was little and my mom put me in this etiquette lessons thing, which sucked, but I was happy to have learned when school dances started up and I actually knew how to dance.
    i luv to dance...usually dance to hip hop......and mainly only at parties i go to (a lot of them lol)



    yah i basically taught my self by watchin music videos i guess and seeing how wat i can wit my body by lookin in da mirror
    Absolutely, I dance every where I go, It's just one of those things you can't stop whenever you hear a beat. You feel music surging through you. i have a song stuck in my head all the time, or a tune stuck in my ears when my iPod is in, so I love to dance. I dance like no one is looking even when they are, and especially when they aren't. No one taught me, it's just something I've always enjoyed, and has always been a big part of my life. My parent love to dance and I guess they would always encourage me to dance. In some ways I wish I had pursued dancing, like ballet, or hip-hop, or even ballroom or salsa... I hope I get the chance to do that. I too would love to dance like the stars on tv with the beautiful movements and sparkling lights on my costume.
    We've learned to dance a little bit in middle school but I love breakdancing. I learn by myself with friends.
    um......i learn befour dancing i dance cha-cha of cours i can dance