Sunday, November 21, 2010

Asking a girl to dance at a dance?

ok there's this huge dance coming up in a few weeks it's the day after thanksgiving and I want to ask this girl to dance with me the only thing is that she already has a bf but I don't think he's going to the dance beacsuse he doesant go to our school so do you think it would be weird to ask her to dance and were kind of friends and how should I ask her to dance with meAsking a girl to dance at a dance?
Okay, if you want to ask her as a friend, then that's okay, but if you like her and want to go to the dance with her because of that then you shouldn't because she already has a bf and you shouldn't get in the way. If you just see her as a friend, then just casually talk to her about the dance and see if she's going and if not then ask her why not and then ask if she would like to go with you. If she's going with a group of friends, then maybe she'll invite you along? if not, then play it off cool and tell him that she'll have a lot of fun and you hope to see her there.Asking a girl to dance at a dance?
walk up to her

and ask her
If she has a boyfriend, don't ask her. If she has a boyfriend, there's a large possibility she'd say no anyways. Avoid the drama and crap and just don't ask. Wait until she doesn't have a boyfriend.
sorry but if she has a boyfriend then shes gonna say no even if she likes u
DO NOT ASK HER TO DANCE IF SHE IS TAKEN! i repeat DO NOT!



that causes so much trouble!



dont dont dont.



if they break up, ask her then, but dont ask her when she is already dating someone!
i think its akways best to kind of lay off cause that might just be the wrong move and wrong signal





gah i really need someone to help me with my question ha i think everyone lately is having love issues D:
That is disrespectful to the guy so don't do it. If you do it now then you ruin any future chances with her. She may eventually break up with him and then you can ask her to dance anytime you want. If you are patient you will be rewarded for it. Ask other girls to have it and have a good time.
go up and ask her lol

specially if her boyfriend doesn't go, cuz she wouldn't want to go to a dance and not dance lol

good luck
of course its gunna be weird but you should still ask, just ask her to go as friends. hopefully there will be a slow song so u can ask her, if so then be a lil closer than normal so you give her more shivers. i it works, try to kiss her, if u do tho there is always the chancee of her not falling for you and telling her bf who may *** and kick the **** out of u. but if u dont then u have just lost the chance to grab her

How to ask a girl to a dance?

Im looking for a creative way to ask my girlfriend to go 2 a dance with me and dont say just ask her cuz if i cant think of anything good then im gonna do that anyway thx =)How to ask a girl to a dance?
Be nice to her and try to ask her. If you are too nervous to ask, then write a letter and HAND it to her.

Vote

me beat answer please?

Good luck

Im expecting ,my first child this summer?

believe it or not i felt movement @ around 12 weeks..im now 5 months

its a girl, she moves toooooo much ,dont get me wrong i love to feel her move its the best thing that ever happened to me. but some time it is a bit too much...can some i get some advice on how to coop with this dancing girlIm expecting ,my first child this summer?
My little girl was a dancing queen in there as well. She also liked to head-butt me under the ribs until I thought I would cry. Limit your caffeine intake, even in chocolate this seemed to calm her down a little. Try wearing her out by playing her music and letting her go. I put head phones up to my tummy and let her jam out (her fave was the beastie boys), this way when I was ready for bed so was she.Im expecting ,my first child this summer?
Enjoy it while you can. It only lasts 9 mos.!
I remember avoiding drinks with high sugar content before bedtime, since the sugar made my daughter VERY active when I was trying to go to sleep! Maybe cutting out sugary food and drinks will calm your baby down a bit. Otherwise ... she'll only get more active as she grows, but you'll get used to it.
cut out all tha sweets and try to eat healthier
cool
If it's happening while you're trying to sleep, try lying on your side instead of on your back.

About a dance????????

So I am going to a dance at an all boys school. I have been to one before. Its weird not knowing any of the guys there. So how do you get them to dance with you? or dance in general? most of them stand on the side. The only way i saw that usually worked is when girls danced with other girls. Is there a better way to get them?About a dance????????
My guess would be watch the boys and see which ones of them seem interested in the music (either they are moving with the music, or they are concentrating on the floor while the music is playing). Those are the ones who want to dance but might just be too shy to ask, or they think that a girl will turn them down.



When you find one that seems interested just go over and say ';Would you like to dance to this song?';. That way they can answer your question several different answers and it won't be so awkward for them. They might just say ';no';, but they may say ';I don't really care for this song, but maybe the next one'; and if they say something like that then you can ask what type of music that they like or who are their favorite artists. Or you could say, I really like this singer but I like (whatever) better.



The more you think about your question before you ask it, the better chance you have of dancing with someone. You could also just say ';I really like (the artist the is playing), do you?';



I myself would not dance with another girl, but, if you want to make your way across the room, it might be a good way to do so. If you go with a friend, dance with her, over to where the boys are standing that you want to talk to. Unless of course they are standing near the refreshments, and then you could just walk over there for that, but go with your friend so it looks like you are having a good time already.



Hope that helps.

How to dance with a girl?

i hate dancing. i love music but i just hate all the dancing that comes with it. but if im at a party or something and a girl wants to dance i dont really have a choice so what are some tips to dance when its not a slow dance song?How to dance with a girl?
look at what the other guys are dancing like, this is gonna sound cheesey, but let the music move you, step and bend your legs with the beat and just kinda move your arms with the rythem... good luck :D

How do i learn to dance?

i can freak dance with girls because it's easy. all you gotta do is stand behind her and grind.

but im going to prom with a friend of mine that i WILL NOT freak dance with because that be weird.

im wondering if anyone knows websites or tips how to dance without grinding. like actualyl standing in front of the girl and dancing.

Of course u have to feel the beat and go with the flow but that's easier said than done.How do i learn to dance?
I took a ballroom dancing class my freshman year of college and that really helped me to understand some of the more classical moves. I've actually been able to apply the steps for salsa and swing in somewhat of a modified way to the music they play at dances.



There are quite a few websites you can find by simply googling a type of dance. For example:



http://www.expertvillage.com/interviews/鈥?/a>



There are two key ideas you should take from your research:



1.) Space can be achieved by holding the girl's right hand in your left and resting your right hand on her lower back or shoulder. It's pretty hilarious when you can dip her or spin her around during a hip hop song, and it's a lot easier to find a comfortable amount of space.



2.) You don't always have to be touching the girl. There are certains moments where you can both be doing your own thing in a group of friends just to be silly. I remember in the past when a bunch of us were making up ridiculous dance moves in a circle where we kept egging people into the center. Don't even think about worrying how you look to others; if you're confident and having a good time it'll set others (who are just as nervous - trust me) at ease.



If all else fails and you feel things are getting awkward, take a break and go talk for a while. I'll be honest with you; I've gone with guy friends before and it's pretty hard to avoid all tension. You just have to be very clear in your boundaries as friends and view the whole thing with a sense of humour.



I hope you have a great time!How do i learn to dance?
you can ask a friend or family how to dance i am sure they would be more than happy to teach you
Freak dance is better when u know not much.



Attend dance classes.



Put music and dance alone to know the steps.
By the way, dry humping isn't dancing at all. I would ask your friend how she would want you to dance and if you still don't know how ask her where can you learn. She the one your going to be dancing with so her opinion matters the most.
ask some of your girl friends to help you out with that

good luck

How to ask a girl to dance in night club?

Yeah I mean how do u actually ask a girl to dance with you in a night or dancing club. I mean do you guys have any special way or line to say... a goood one that work very well......How to ask a girl to dance in night club?
Just walk up and ask if they would like to dance. If they turn you down, never then ask around the table to see if anyone else wants to dance. You will have more success by asking the girls that are tapping their foot or looking like they would like to dance or have been dancing. If a table of girls are turning everyone down, don't ask. See who's looking at you, smile back and when the right song comes on, saunter on over. Don't forget the shy girls and do ask the real pretty ones. Most guys think they don't have a chance and the pretty ones just sit there hoping to be asked to dance. If you get turned down, just smile and say Thanks Anyway. There are sooo many out there. . . Oh, and be sure you CAN dance. . .How to ask a girl to dance in night club?
nope. i like it when a guy just comez up to me when im dancing(cuz im alwayz dancing) n just starts dancing wit me. its more sexy that way. unless of course he's ugly, then i tell him, sorry im dancing wit my frenz.
My heart goes out to you single guys. You have the most difficult position on the planet-constantly putting yourself on the line, risking rejection from often heartless girls.

So here's what you do: go to www.askmen.com and write in 'doc love' and read everything you can. Then go to www.doclove.com and read more. On Saturdys he has a live program just for men. He is an EXPERT on relationships (the only man who is) and on how to weed out the 'user'girls from the 'good ones' who are worthy of your time and attention (and money.) He has great advise on how to pick up girls, lines, everything.

Good luck. You can thank me later.

Blessings!
offer them drink and ask 'em ....haha
there's a website devoted to this....www.lonelynightclub.com
Go up to her and tell her this ';Hey look i am not tyring to pick up on you , but i just want to ask you to dance! Is that ok?'; then talk to her get to know her start by asking her for her name and introduce you're self then keep going then you can get something out of her by the end of the night. I'm a dj at a night club so i know how it works!
Give me your hand, put your best foot forward and I will safely take you across the mountains and the seas.
Eye contact. Lean into her ear so she can hear you. A simple ';would you like to dance??'; is perfect. Smile and dont look down her shirt. too much. good-luck.
i got one. you go up and say ';hey, would you like to dance'; most of the time it works. Good luck!
Do you work at subway? Because you're giving me a foot long. Wanna dance?
If you use a ';good line';, then girls will usually see right through it. If I were you, I would just walk up to a girl, smile, note if she smiles back...and then if I felt comfortable, would ask her if she wanted to dance. If you're not too confident in your dancing abilities, I would maybe say it while out on the dance floor. Something like, ';I'm not the best dancer, but I'm tryin'!'; She might take your hands in hers and show you how to. You never know! But if she has attitude while you're stepping onto the dancefloor, this would indicate to me that she's not that charmed by your motives. In that case, I would just dance and try maybe once to make some light conversation out on the dancefloor. If she responds, keep talking. If not, then just chalk it up to the fact that she's a major witch (replace w with b!), thank her for the dance once the song is over, and move on to someone else.
offer them a drink then ask her if she wants to dance.
';Hi. Dance with me?';.

How do I ask a girl to my dance?

I really like this girl but I have trouble with asking girls out, asking to go to dances etc. How do I overcome the fear and what do I say when I ask her?How do I ask a girl to my dance?
there are various ways to do it. If you are shy, try to get her alone when her friends are not there. Or call her, and ask. Tell yourself that your a great guy and you deserve it. Just be yourself, and tell her how you feel, if you have any friends who are girls, ask them to help you. Maybe make a card for her, sweet and simple. I hope she says yes, and you are happy. Just remember that you are worth it, and you can ask her. P.s everyone has that fear of rejection. Create a mantra for yourself, maybe it will work, find something that works for you! Good Luck!How do I ask a girl to my dance?
with words coming out of your mouth.
hey joel its me. i will deffanitly go with you (: pick me up at 6 love ya babe
you '; wanna dance brenda'; ( just say the girls name is brenda lol.



brenda '; sure! '; ...



the worst she can sai is no..

What to do when i'm done dancing with a girl, at a high school dance?

i have a dance this friday. i am a 14 year old boy, and this will be my 2nd high school dance. i want to know how to approach a girl, maybe get her number, and what to do when i'm done dancing with her. Do i just walk away? please help! (At my high school dances we grind) thanks in advance!What to do when i'm done dancing with a girl, at a high school dance?
Well it depends.... I just got out of high school and like you already know, all my dances were filled with pure grinding (no complaints here) Something I noticed though is most of the guys don't talk to the girls before grinding with them, they kind of have a tendency to just grab and go, which surprisingly works most of the time, but will hardly get you numbers.



However if you want a chance at getting some numbers, you'll have to introduce yourself before you dance. Not only does that help once your done grinding, but if the girl actually knows a bit about you before you start grinding, she'll feel more comfortable with you... resulting in better grinding (trust me on that one)



Okay.. so once you've grinded for a couple of songs or so, start out with a compliment like; you're a fantastic dancer or you look great or something, that'll be your conversation starter. Once you've said that just basically get into a nice little conversation.. If you notice she doesn't really want to talk then just ditch and find another girl. Most of the time the girls will be impressed by the fact you have enough confidence to even try talking... TRUST ME more than half of the guys at dances are too shy to even try to talk to girls.



So yeah, once you've talked for a bit and you feel you two are getting along just go right on ahead and ask for her number, there's a lot of things you can say... an example would be something along the lines of; you're a great person and i'd like to get to know you better... Stuff like that.



Just remember no girl wants to be hanging with a guy who is all nervous and stuff... Be confident and you'll be swimming in numbers by the end of the night.What to do when i'm done dancing with a girl, at a high school dance?
You grind and you are 14 years old. Gosh, no wonder there are so many teen pregnancies. If you are interested in the girl then you stay with her if she acts interested. If she walks away then she isn't interested in you.
Ask her to dance. A slow song would be better for flirting (and getting numbers).
Ok well the polite thing to do would be to THANK HER!!!!!!!! The ask he if she wants to dance again or needs a rest if she wants to rest offer ot get her punch or something then start talking to her about HER!!!! By the end of the night just say i wanna know you more can i have you number?
Play it cool. At the end of the dance, politely look her in the eye, smile and thank her for the dance.



Courtesy goes a long way. If you stay cool, the girls who are interested will hound you for your attention! I promise it works most every time.



If you end up continuing to dance several dances with one girl, offer to take a break and find some refreshments. This will give both of you time to breathe and see if you have goals in common.
I hope this helps.... If you want to dance just go up to the girl and ask her to dance. After the dance is over either: 1) ask for another dance if she seems cool or 2) tell her thanks and smile and walk away if you don't think she is that cool. Just remember to be nice.
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  • How do you ask a girl to dance with you?

    How do you ask a girl to grind with you?How do you ask a girl to dance with you?
    Well dancing is an easy answer, you go up to her and say hi and like ';you like to dance with me?'; - the worst she can say is no! As for grinding, get her out there first and then give it a try when the mood is right - timing is everything!!!! She will either be into it or not, so take the shot. Nothing ventured nothing gained as they say!How do you ask a girl to dance with you?
    you wanna dance?
    Actually, you may have to pay her.
    fancy a dance?
    ask her
    you can ask a girl to dance with you, but you dont ASK to grind. start dancing and if the right vibe is there, then you know whether you can grind with her or not. just do it though, you dont ask.
    u walk up to tham and ask them, easy
    With your mouth
    Just ask her
    you simply go up to a girl and say, ';would you like to dance?'; or you can say, ';can i have this dance?';
    Say would you like to dance, easy as that.
    ';dance with me?';
    Hmm, well I think you just say ';do you wanna dance?';
    all you say is, would you like to dance?
    Just walk up to her and Hey you wanna dance with me...hopefully she says yes and you two dance all night
    Excuse me, May I have this dance? :)
    I simply say ';may I step on your feet';
    If your at a club, just ask. Don't be creepy and walk up to a girl already dancing and start grinding on her, that's creepy.
    Grinding is disrespectful... so worry about having a nice first dance instead. Walk up to her, smile and ask her to dance.
    First off, you don't say grind. That is one of the first thing that girls say no.



    Just say ';hey you wanna dance?';



    (if she says no, you better NOT say, did i'; say you wanna to dance?';, i said, you look fat in those pants.)



    good luck.
    will you dance with me please?
    never be shy
    When you see the girl standing in the dance floor alone thats the best time to ask someone for dance.
    would u like to dance with me .... easy
    well u got to really know her to ask to grind but if u just wanna dance then just say ' do u wanna dance?' how else would u ask her?!
    Do kids still grind these days? JC! When I was young, I got behind the nicest @ss I could find and let her go to work. Good luck, be aggressive.
    Can I have this dance?
    dont u wanna shake ur *** to me? :D
    lift one eyebrow, look in her left eye (right one for you), feel how beautifull she is to you and give her a smile that comes directly from that feeling. Then make a very small bow (more like nodding), hold your hand open so that she can put her hand in it, and take her to the dancefloor. There is no possibility that she sais no, because you offer so much. Some girls are shy, and don't get the gesture. Some guys need some practice in the gesture first. in that case talking might help. But first be a charming big ape.

    Of course, she can say no, and in the end you have to accept that, but first persist a little. And if you think it is a real no, ask her why not, start a little chat. When the chat feels good don't hesitate to inform a second time ... do you feel like a small dance now? if it is still a no, continue the chat, as long as that feels good. Don't run off like a beaten dog, when you feel like running of. Walk away with a straight back and ask someone else to dance with you.

    Good luck!

    Dr. Aram
    be ready and go in an elegant,royal way and say :may i have a dance wiz u plzzz?....girls like that way in talking wiz her in aany issue...they like u to apperciate them..and good luck ;)

    How to ask girl to dance?

    Hey everyone,



    How could I ask a girl to junior prom who I've never spoken with? Is it possible? I'd have to ask in the hall or something but I dont wanna seem like a total creep! Help!How to ask girl to dance?
    '; Hey whats up? You wanna go to the dance with me?'; Act confident and cool.How to ask girl to dance?
    ';Would u mind have a dance with me';

    ';Shall we've a dance';
    start talking to her and become friends. then after a week or two, after talking regularly, say, ';will you go to the prom with me?';



    good luck!
    This is easy. Practice your dancing technique. Then go to a nightclub with your friend. Go onto the dancefloor. If you have good style, it won't be long before they'll gravitate toward your direction
    Ask one of her friends to help you with ideas. They will know exactly what she would like. If her friends are rude, then just walk up and say ';I would love to go to the prom with you. What do you say?';
    Simple, ask her to dance and if she says no you say sorry i think you misheard me i said you look fat in those pants
    You totally won't sound like a creep. Just go up and ask her if she has a minute. Then just flat out ask. Don't say anything else like an excuse or downplay why you wanna take or her anything. She'll be totally flattered. She might not say yes but she probably won't say no. Most girls are just waiting for someone to ask them and it usually doesn't happen...Good luck! Let us know what happens!
    just go up to where she is sitting and introduce urself and be liek woudl you liek to dance....might not help but it could be a good idea
    The best way to ask a girl that you don't really know out without making things akward is to find a way to do it creatively. For my junior prom my date made me go through a scavenger hunt to find the question and the identity of the person asking me, it was fun to do and it helped me get to know him a little better. There are a lot of creative ways to ask, you just have to sit down and plan it out. Good luck!!
    You gotta say something borderline phsycho like, ';I want to touch your hair'; or, ';you got a real pretty mouth';. Also, use alot of description with your words. A little hint: Girls love it when you talk about invisioning them in the restroom.
    All you have to do is go right up to her and ask her out. Of course the odds that she will accept your invitation to the dance out of the blue without knowing you first is very slim to none. Possible? Yes, but highly doubtful.



    If you really like her and want to get to know her more where you will be comfortable in asking her out whether it be the school dance or out on a date, then go up to her and talk to her. Flirt, flirt, flirt. Man up and relax around the ladies. Insecurity will show if you psyche yourself out of interacting with a young lady. That is how guys look like creeps to girls.



    She may or may not be interested in you anyways. If not, then it is her loss and not yours. Better yet, have a plan B or C girl in case this chick you want to ask out doesn't pan out.
    ok the day before the prom, after school grab her guide her to the bathrooms(doesn't matter which one). and start to have sex. then in the middle of the sexing ask her to the prom. if she hessitates that means a no if she doesn't answer and continudes to sex u that means a yes

    How do i get a girl to dance with me at the dance?

    If you already know her, just ask her. Don't be afraid; just do it. Even if she says no, shrug your shoulders and say ';Okay, your loss.'; If you don't already know her, however, that's the exact opposite of what you want to do; if you ask a girl you don't know right off, she might think you're a creeper. The way to get a girl you don't know to dance with you is by making her WANT to dance with you. This is done by going out to the dance floor and dancing by yourself or with a group of friends for a little bit, while every so often looking her way. If she happens to look up at you while you're dancing, give her a wink, or another flirtatious gesture to signal your invitation. It's a very smooth and charming way to get her to come to you. If you entice her enough, she won't be able to resist. ;) Hope this helps!How do i get a girl to dance with me at the dance?
    ask her. if she says no jus laugh and try 2 pull her with you if she backs back up and laughs she prob wants to just scared. tell her no one cares if she dances bad. if she still wont dance wit u well then ur on ur own buddyHow do i get a girl to dance with me at the dance?
    Asking a female politely usually does the trick!
    Honesty if your best policy. Don't spout off cheesy lines. Just be honest, introduce yourself, offer her a drink. If she says no, it isn't the end of the world. That's the worst thing she could do. Is say ';no';. Make sure you have a shower first though and use appropriate underarm roll-on antiperspirant.
    ok. just go up to her and say ';you want to dance?'; if she says no then just ask someone else. :)

    How to ask a girl to homecoming dance?

    I'm not just asking how do I ask her I'm wondering how I should go about it. Yea see we've been pretty good friends for awhile and she goes to a different school and her homecoming is next weekend and mine is Saturday. She bought a new dress and everything so she wants to go to homecoming but doesn't want to go alone. Should I ask her to mine or ask if she'd like me to join her to hers and how should I go about asking her since she just broke up with her bf.How to ask a girl to homecoming dance?
    well first ask her soon before someone else does and ask to go to hers because she might be more happier with that and you can see her friends and see some people who go to her school. =)

    How do i stop my men from watching some undersierable things?

    i have bought a laptop recently n my man have now start using.... i love him so much and little old fashion... i don't allow him to sexy stuffs. even thought a girl dance with mini skirt or bikini i find that undersierable even though i know it is not too wrong... but i only want him to see me not anyone... how can i stop him? i can't blocking of such view in the net but he would think that i am controling him.. why does men like to watch such things wat do they gain? can i know how can i still view wat my bf have seen in the net even if he deletes the history i think there is something call cookies to be view or temporay files right... where can i check it... pls advice thanksHow do i stop my men from watching some undersierable things?
    You sound jealous to me! You need to let him have a little bit of freedom! If not, things that are bad, could happen!How do i stop my men from watching some undersierable things?
    good luck with this one mendo what they want regardless of what you want them to do
    Tell him you don't want him looking at pornography or such if it bothers you. If he still does it, either find another man or accept him as a normal male.
    When you do let all us other women know
    Why are you obsessing over this? It will destroy your relationshiop. Have you done any of the ';sexy'; things for him? Romance him more....
    Why do you worry so much! He is with you! Isn't he? There's nothing wrong with him looking at girls! As long as he doens't touch them or have sex with the everything is fine!
    Men will be men when it comes to this, but I would let him know how you feel...and if you want to delete all that crap he is watching...just in case you ever lend you computer to someone...this is a good site that helped me with my now ex-husband...



    http://www.evidence-eliminator.com/d2w/e鈥?/a>
    your MEN? well how many you got?
    tell him how you feel
    Sounds like you are going to damage your relationship with your controlling ways. If you lighten up a bit, you will find things so much easier. Men are men are men - looking doesn't hurt and certainly doesn't mean that he finds you less desirable or loves you any less.
    First learn how to express yourself properly. Then, get back to me.
    ....its human nature..either you talk to him about it in a nice way and if he doesn't see things your way don't push it...if you say you love him...love him unconditionally...
    he's a man, cut him slack, we are hunters its what we do!
    This is your laptop. You don't have to let him use it. Put it away when you are not using it and explain you don't want anyone using it but yourself. Stick to your guns.
    um look guys are going to be guys
    welll try to make him not look at those stuff

    wel...

    you can try to grab his attention and just tell him wat you feeel
    This is absolute normal guy behavior. I'm a girl and I love to watch the stuff every now and then. It keeps the relationship healthy. Sounds to me like you are not that secure of yourself if you're worried about your boyfriend looking at things of this nature. All men do it. You should get used to it. Or try it. You might end up liking it. There's nothing gross, sick or wrong about it. We are all humans!!!
    damn girl. By being so uptight, he will want to revolt...no matter what. You ask...';how can i make him do what i want?'; well you can't really. He has his own will. If you were more secure with who you are, it wouldn't bother you that he finds other women sexy. How is he suppose to not find other women sexy...its natural. that doesn't mean he will cheat....But when you get all controlling about it, your helping to encourage it, despite yourself. And if he likes dirty talk and you don't ....he'll probably get it else where. You need to dial a 987 number and learn how to do/enjoy talking dirty, and if you can't you need to find a man who doesn't like that kind of stuff. He will stray....i promise you.
    You cannot control or change who he is or what he likes. You can state to him that such material is offensive to you and you dislike it, but most likely he will not give a crap. Find a way to accept it and be at peace with it or find yourself another man. Sorry.
    most guys like to look at the following:



    women

    shiny things

    things that are run by gas or electricity

    TV

    food



    its like it build into them. guys just like looking at stuff... it does not mean anything bad or that he would cheat on you or anything like that.....

    guys just like to look at stuff.... they will look at the same thing hundreds of times. watch him look at stuff, he just can't help it.



    if you stop him he'll either leave you or hate you



    hope this helps,



    SS
    You can view the cache but alot of the images in the cache are from advertisers, search engine hits and other things that he never visited.



    The primary issue is that he is not ';looking' in that sense at other women. That he sees other women helps him appreciate YOUR bueaty all the way. Think about it this way. If you lived next to niagra falls and saw it every day and nothing else. Wouldn't familiarity blind you to the greatness of even such a natural wonder?



    Unless you man is spending lots of time doing it and or is off looking at such sites

    Getting over my crush, need help :(?

    Ok, long story, I'm a freshman in high school by the way.



    So a few weeks ago we had our school dance, girl asks the guy...I went with a friend (I actually had a crush on her though)...Anyways, nothing happened, we had fun and went back to normal.



    However, lately I feel sick whenever I see a picture of her...The weird part is though, when I talk to her I'm completely fine. I don't WANT to date her, because it most likely wouldn't last and would lead to us never speaking to each other again.



    But like I stated earlier, whenever I see a picture of her, or I think about her and she isn't standing right there I start thinking ';What IF I asked her out..?'; and ';Did she actually ask another guy out first, or did she do that so asking ME wouldn't be so awkward';...Just a few days ago, a friend of ours made the remark ';You like him'; and she was like ';Not in that way..'; So I know the chances are slim to none...



    How can I get over this? I like her as a friend, but whenever I'm alone and for whatever reason I think about her, I can't help but wonder if I would've asked her out, and how it would've turned out..



    Basically, I just need advice on how to deal with this...Thanks in advanceGetting over my crush, need help :(?
    Hmm, what i do to get over someone is text every guy in my phone to get over that person.

    Sooo im advising you text every girl in your phone and see what happens, might get your mind off of her and then you two can just stay friends ;)Getting over my crush, need help :(?
    You need to ask her out or find another girl...

    If you don't then you'll continue to do the 'what if' scenario %26amp;

    that never gets you anywhere; you need to sepearate yourself

    from fantasy and reality %26amp; the only way to do that is ask her out

    or find some other girl but it sounds like you're really into this girl,

    I say suck it up grab your balls %26amp; go ahead! %26lt; 3(:

    B e s t wishes.!
    you have mixed emotions, and you must find someone to replace her. Moreover, she doesn't dig you anymore because ';familiarity breeds contempt';. She has a strong idea of you that will probable not change.
    she still might like you ....the reason she said not in that way is because she probaly wasn't sure you liked her in that way and she didn't want to look stupid....try flirting with her and getting to know her better and if she flirts back then she probaly likes you...if it turns out she dosnt then move on there are millions of girls out there that do like you

    10 points today! OUCH anyone feel my pain? what would this do to your self esteem/ego/self dignity?

    How would you feel if your ex begs pleads for weeks then all the sudden--------%26gt;They move on!

    Not only move on but in Better shape than ever! Has taken up a new hobby! And just a totally different person?I broke up with my ex gf about 6 months ago she was pretty pathetic and she was getting too needy. I did her wrong ill admit and after i wronged her she started stalking me and calling me all the time telling me she loved me still and would do anything for me blah blah. All the sudden one day her uncle brings me all my stuff and some of her things and then 2 weeks later she calls me tells me she is sorry for offending me, and she tells me she forgives me (Wtf?) Then she stops stalking me. She is nicer, friendlier, outgoing, in shape, a guy magnet, is living out her dreams, has plenty new hobbies, just a total different person than before she even looks so much better! I dont want her back but it amazes me how one day shes looking like a complete wreck crying nonstop then shes the smiling hot dance girl on campus?10 points today! OUCH anyone feel my pain? what would this do to your self esteem/ego/self dignity?
    What about this confuses you?

    Since you don't want her why would it matter?



    It's pretty simple. She loved you or thought she did and required something from you that you couldn't give. Possibly just didn't have the same feelings. She tried in her own way to get you back. When she finally figured out that you weren't coming back... and that she was behaving in an overly emotional manner she quit. She apologized... and she moved on.



    Sounds like it was like she snapped into maturity and then noticed that there was more to life than hovering over you. Which of course boosts self esteem when your doing something that you enjoy and finding new things to enjoy. So to a woman a boost of self esteem also boosts your feminine side... the powerful one.



    She also probably noticed what she had began to look like and that she needed to shape up. Every relationship is a learning experience. So she might of possibly considered all the things you complained about ... along with what you admired in other girls if it were people passing by or just on TV. So she's trying to better herself for that next relationship.



    This would be what most guys think of as... Oh, they shaped up so that they could get another guy to fall for it. No that's not really what it is... it's just called experience and the sometimes slow rate of maturing. ;-)10 points today! OUCH anyone feel my pain? what would this do to your self esteem/ego/self dignity?
    You changed her buddy. The pain made her strong.
    i would just die :-(
    its called making yourself available for the market again. women do this better than males.
    i feel your pain



    answer my question?

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    People get sick of chasing someone for so long and finally give up. She got sick of chasing you when you didn't want her. Therefore, she let you have ehr way and proceeded onward to find someone who did.
    When in a relationship..your acts are related to what your partner likes. When single, your whole concentration is on yourself. At first person feels the pain of left alone but once they realize that they can stay happy alone they come out a better person...
    Sounds like she just realized that you and her were completely over and she's just trying to move on with her life, while learning from her mistakes.
    she out grow you. you brought her down. now she has seen the light and moved on to bigger and better things..
    good for her, she realized she was wasting her time and improved herself for the next guy who will treat her well

    10 Points Today! OUCH anyone ever felt my pain? What would this do to your self dignity and esteem?

    How would you feel if your ex begs pleads for weeks then all the sudden--------%26gt;They move on!

    Not only move on but in Better shape than ever! Has taken up a new hobby! And just a totally different person?I broke up with my ex gf about 6 months ago she was pretty pathetic and she was getting too needy. I did her wrong ill admit and after i wronged her she started stalking me and calling me all the time telling me she loved me still and would do anything for me blah blah. All the sudden one day her uncle brings me all my stuff and some of her things and then 2 weeks later she calls me tells me she is sorry for offending me, and she tells me she forgives me (Wtf?) Then she stops stalking me. She is nicer, friendlier, outgoing, in shape, a guy magnet, is living out her dreams, has plenty new hobbies, just a total different person than before she even looks so much better! I dont want her back but it amazes me how one day shes looking like a complete wreck crying nonstop then shes the smiling hot dance girl on campus?10 Points Today! OUCH anyone ever felt my pain? What would this do to your self dignity and esteem?
    She finally got over you. Perhaps, she underwent counseling or maybe met another guy and it totally changed her viewpoint on life. She realized she was being too clingy and that in order to get over you, she first needed to ask your forgiveness, even though you were the one who broke up with her. It sounds like she started seeing life for what it is and that it doesn't need you in it to be complete and wonderful. I'm really happy for her and you should be. Why don't you congratulate her10 Points Today! OUCH anyone ever felt my pain? What would this do to your self dignity and esteem?
    You wrote some contradictory statements.



    ';OUCH anyone ever felt my pain? What would this do to your self dignity and esteem?';



    ';I dont want her back';



    It sounds like you don't like who she was but you like who she has become. But it's probably too late. Maybe she got some treatment for her issues. You'd be amazed how quick and effective some can be.
    Part of it may just be for show, or maybe it is genuine. Either way, 'reclaiming' your dignity and self esteem is something totally within you. Don't look for external gratification because it is just a bandaid and only treats the symptom, not the root cause.
    Well she must've finally realised that you're not worth her tears. (Clever girl.)



    She's just getting on with her life. You obviously made her feel selfconscious and you never understood her, therefore she would cry, and now she's finally comfortable with herself. She doesn't feel as though she needs to impress anyone, but herself.
    ..shes doing what u wanted her to do.....she moved on......and stopped stalking u..lol....if i were u..id just better myself as well and not worry bout what shes doing..thats what she wants..she wants u to worry about her and think about her..really ive seen girls who were like that and all of a sudden their thinking ';ill just do things to make myself seem more desirable and hell want me back sometime';...weird huh?
    Maturity and self-respect are never easy lessons. We get them only after experiencing rough times, usually as a result of our own foolish mistakes/decisions, and hours and hours of self-reflection.



    She seems to have earned herself a little of both. Good for her.
    Obviously someone told a very good secret. The best revenge to get over a breakup is to live well.



    It got your attention now, didn't it?



    Good for her.
    Looks like she met someone who appreciates her, and has fulfilled her dreams. Sorry about your luck.
    ^ Agreed with Paris.

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    GOOD FOR HER!!! You done her wrong,she's got over the break up and moved on. Serves you right!
    aint supposedto be happy she finally got off your back? or maybe u were just playing hard to get? someone saw the good in her and she took it up.

    How would you ask a girl to dance with u because i have a scholl dance today??

    ';Would you like to dance?'; and then wait till she either says yes, no or makes a face.How would you ask a girl to dance with u because i have a scholl dance today??
    k dude this is a great way. go up to girl and say ';hey there is this guy that wants to dance with you, he is just over here'; then turn around and walk away about 5-10 steps and then turn around and wave back to her to let her know that you are the one that wants to dance with her

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    How would you ask a girl to dance with u because i have a scholl dance today??
    ';I really like how you look. Will you give me the pleasure to dance with you at the...';
    just ask her to dance
    You can say ';May I have this dance?'; which is formal, or ';Would you like to dance with me?'; which is less formal. What's the problem? The worst that can happen is she will say no. (I know; the worst is she can giggle. But girls giggle all the time anyway, so don't take it personally.)
    when she isn't dancing with anyone else just go up and say do you want to dance just be simple and be yourself
    ask her if she wants to dance and wait for her reply.
    This is easy just say ';would you like to dance'; then when you're danceing talk to her. Say things like ';how am I doing'; ';I wanted to ask you for this dance for a long time now.';
    Just ask any girl. GIRLS LOVE TO DANCE! Maybe you should ask a girl to go just as a friend. And see how things go?? Good luck my man!
    i have a dance today to! Just go up to her and say ';do you wanna dance?'; and if she isnt rude...she will say yes.

    How to ask a girl to dance?

    well i am a very shy person and I guess i am also kindof scared of girls and so basicly when some girl wants a hug from me i hug them and they comment that i suck at hugging or i just run away wich im finding myself doing more and more often because it is alot easier so now i get made fun of for it and now I like this one girl tht is realy hot but every1 in the school likes her as well and the valintines dance is coming up and i want to dance with her but im to scared so wht should i do? PS: im in 7th gradeHow to ask a girl to dance?
    You sound like a very cute guy, and if girls ask to hug you all the time it means they like you, so ur probably a good looking guy too. If you want to dance with a girl just go up to her with confidence and ask her to dance, no biggie, dont think of it as something hard and scary, its just dancing.How to ask a girl to dance?
    just walk up to her and ask. if she says no just say no problem
    go over and ask but the only time is you ask with self-esteem and Sex appeal. You need to look her in her eyes with passion and look like you are a gentleman who loves women. Remember self-esteem!!!!
    OK. I remember when i first asked a girl to dance. I am a very shy and quiet person. You just kinda have to force yourself to do it in your head. Once you do it, it gets easier. I know that its difficult, but its rewarding
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  • Do you ever daydream of you and a girl dancing to some romantic hindi movie song or is something wrong with me

    first of all ... i day dream alot especially about that special pure girl that i want to marry some day ... (u know cultural, virgin indian girl) .... and if i'm in a really good mood ... and i'm listening to some hindi song ... i just become part of it and imagine me and and that girl dancing and getting romantic ...i mean don't get me wrong ... i don't think anything dirty in my mind ... you know just how they do it in indian movies ... come on .. typical shah rukh movie song .... kuch kuch hota hai ... when this happens ... some amazing feeling passes through every vein in my body .. i can't even explain that feeling ... i hope i find that special girl some day ... haayehDo you ever daydream of you and a girl dancing to some romantic hindi movie song or is something wrong with me
    THERE IS NOTHING WRONG IN DREAMING ABOUT THE GIRL YOU LIKE. IT SHOWS YOUR LOVE TOWARDS HER. I HOPE YOU FIND THAT GIRL SOON ENOUGH.ALL THE BEST.SHE IS REALLY LUCKY TO GET SUCH A NICE PARTNER.Do you ever daydream of you and a girl dancing to some romantic hindi movie song or is something wrong with me
    thanks

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    hey!!! i read ur question and ur just like me!!! im a very dreamy girl.....its nice to knw that im not the only dreamy one....so keep on dreaming and i hope u find ur girl and i can find my guy :P

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    the first part of your name says it all...
    ok...your making me horny....STOP IT!
    you got BOLLYWOOD on the brain man....



    get away from the day dreams.. get on with your life
    lol, now that's original! to answer your question, no and maybe.
    Well, uh, unfortunately not all of like Hindi girls or guys. So the fact that you asked this and actually thought that there would be others to sympathize with you is weird but a little funny. They're not the only virgins out there, but you're type is your type. I hope you're a virgin since you want one so bad. Me especially only date virgin men, so good luck with that. I hope you do find her.
    Yes Mr.romantic,you will get your dreamgirl.Jaldi se india aa ja.
    -==
    You are a movieaholic...it leads you to ashtray.
    hey look! when you think of those movies, you need to remember that it is not real life story..you compare the girl of your dreams with whom? Indian heroins like kajol (you gave example of kuch kuch..) ??? Do YOU think YOU are like SRK?? Well, don't get me wrong, i don't want to sound rude..but still dear, live in reality. You know, it is not practical to dance like that..and if maybe (oo shittt!) you are not that lucky to get someone whom you dream, you would make her life Hell! In the modern world, Indian girls are not like what you think..you'll have to get someone like that from some village..and damn if she won't know how to sing and dance and how to surf the net! Ha ha..would be great for you na?? So why don't you go for ultra modern mini skirt girls (i don't mean that actually) but not typical cultural girls..they are not reality now a days..hope you got something..
    listen- im a hetero-sexual woman, so i dont have the same daydreams as you, but ,in my opinion, it is wonderful that you have a great place to go in your mind. you have definate ideas of what you want in life, and if you stick to that, you will get it. too many people are so firmly planted in reality that they forget how to dream and visualize. of course, you need to get your head out of the clouds long enough to take care of business.but go there whenever you can and enjoy being away from the realities of this life. sometimes it is not such a nice place to be. i hope you find that woman ,and live a long and happy life together! best wishes
    U R IN LOVE WITH HER. The girl who u dream or there must be any previous birth relations
    ok did u watch the movie ';pardes'; recently??? is it the movie effect??how old r u? 15? 16? just stepped puberty?? u mite fnd a girl but dont b dissapointed then if she isnt up to ur mark...u dont always get wut u want...and see a psychologist cuz so much of day dreaming isnt good for life...enjoy!
    live ur dreams......kool man this is a nice thing 2 happen....it seems ur desparately waiting 2 luv sum1 and u want love in return too.....this is because u hve tried hard to stay away frm gurls there.....but mate keep 1 thing in mind......india has changed drastically in last 5 yrs....so u wont even find many virgin gurls here......dnt be let down...der are a few n i hope u get 1 of dem as soon as u *** 2 india.....best of luck

    u also seem 2 be stuck alot to bollywood ...dats nice....enjoy and u ll definitely get a gud gurl....ur hard work will pay
    It hapns to me also. Nothing wrong. Have a good day dream!!!
    many dream abt it.......... try........ dreams may come true.........

    How do i get a girl to dance with me?

    Whats the best way to ask a girl ive never met to dance with me? im going to this party thing its kinda like a club and theyll be a lot ppl there dancing? what should i do? and how do i pick out the girls who might want to dance from those who porbly wouldnt?How do i get a girl to dance with me?
    The girls who make eye contact with you. Be nice and polite and kindly ask them will you dance with me. if they say no then just walk away.How do i get a girl to dance with me?
    just go up and ask. just say ';do u wanna dance'; or something like that
    Go up and introduce yourself. It's hard if you don't have a lot of confidence, but it works. Flirting works as well. ;)
    Well just say hey would you like to dance with me? Just read their body language. If they give you positive body language then ya they'll most likely dance with you.
    Only ask those women who are dancing alone and who know how to dance!
    find a girl that looks like she would be faithful and find someone that looks like ';your type';. and just kind of look at her at the beginning of the dance and catch her eye, that way she knows you exist and she knows you know she exist. maybe go over and talk to her and when a slow song comes on just be like ';so do you wanna dance?';
    just go up to them and ask them. dont ask the slutty ones because they will probably say no becuase they are so stuck up. ull kno when u see the right girl. just go up to her and ask, ';would u like to dance with me?'; just say that. and if she says no she says no. dont give up and go ask another girl. they will at least appreciate the fact that u got up the courage to ask if the say np or yes. or the nice ones will. good luck and hope you have fun!!:)
    just find someone you're attracted to, or someone who looks like you'd like to dance with, and just ask her.
    Aw, your cute

    But um, just go with the flow man.

    Walk up to the girl you think is cute %26amp; just be like ';Hey, wanna dance?'; Or something like that. Be real about it, don't try to be someone else. Oh yeah, %26amp; first impressions mean alot, so put on your cutiest smile %26amp; dress fly. Girls hate creepy guys, especially in the clubs.



    Good luck sweetie

    %26amp; take care
    Oh, for heaven's sake, just go up to her ask her if she would like to dance. Take a look at what kind of songs she really seems to like and ask her when the next one comes along. Or, better yet, put in a request. Then don't chicken out!



    Good luck!

    How do i ask this girl to the dance?

    the middle school dance is coming up and i don't know how to ask this girl to the dance. I had a crush on her for like a quarter of the school year so far. I really don't know because i only have one person going with me (boy) and most people think he's a dork but i don't know who else to go with, enough of that, my question is how do i ask this girl to the danceHow do i ask this girl to the dance?
    just ask her face to face, its sweeeeet =] she will be flattered.How do i ask this girl to the dance?
    There are so many ways! Look on youtube for prom proposals, it'll give u alot of ideas. good luck.
    Do something fun or cheesy like a note, or big red heart with a picture of a dance, and your face.
    Haha, honestly kid, it's as easy as this:



    You: Hey, have you heard about the dance coming up?



    Her: ___________



    You: So are you going?



    (if her answer is yes continue on)



    You: Do you have a date yet?



    (If her answer is No continue on)



    You: Well I was wondering if maybe you'd like to go with me?



    There's no need to be nervous. Try to slip it into casual conversation. Good luck. :]
    Get a fish bowl and fill it up with gold fish!! and then have a 3X5 card and tape it to the front and have it say out of all the fish in the sea i want you to go with me! and give it to her! She will think its SUPER cute!
    well if your really shy then i think the best thing to do is ask her in person for her msn/aim/facebook so you can instant message her.



    make sure u ask her though you dont wanna seem like a stalker.. then on msn or aim just say 'soo, the dance is comming up.. are you excited'



    then see what she says, then reply back 'wanna go together'? or smething.



    i used that 1 when i was a kid ur age.
    You planned on going to a dance with another guy? Are you bi?
    Just go up and ask and DON'T have someone else do it for you do it yourself it works trust me, girls love confidence!
    Ask her if she's going with friends, if she isn't, perfect! Say, '; You can come with me if you'd like. Or, I was wondering if you would want to come with me to the dance.'; Idk, it depends on your personality. Anyway, if she IS going with friends, you can still offer, but as a second choice ( so you don't push her) and say you think it would be fun if she went with you ( that's always nice to hear haha) GOOD LUCK! She deserves you :)
    Just walk up and start rubbing up and down her similar to poledancing, and say you like my dancing?
    you dont

    besides looks like your a fag

    so dont worry about it
    Be really sweet%26amp;show that you like her alott, girls loooooooove it when guys are sweet (:

    %26amp;if you do that, then she shouldnt care if your friend is a ';dork'; ; hope it works :D
    Boy: *nervously walks up* Heeey... what's up? Heheh... Do you wanna go to the dance with me?

    Girl: [Answer]



    Seriously, it isn't that hard. Guys get WAY too nervous talking to chicks. If she's a decent person she'll just answer. If she's a ***** and not worth your time she'll laugh or make a big deal about it. Basically, if she answers 'hell no' in a snobby tone, walk up to a different girl and and forget the other one. Don't waste time on trash.
    simple: just asked her!!
    I'm a 13 y/o girl. SMELL GOOD take a long shower before the dance. Spray but don't over spray w/axe. Wear cute nice fitting clothes. Have a nice white smile and just walk up to her. Girls love confidence. If she is with her friends just walk up and say'' hey soandso do you want to dance with me?'' try to get her number. If she says no WHO CARES you only live once. KK GOOD LUCK!
    Seriously man if you want to ask a girl to a dance be straight up about it. You don't necessarily have to be cute or anything about it. Just get the balls and go up to who ever she may be and ask hey ____ will you go to the dance with me.
    hey take the chance and just walk over to her and ask her if shed like to go to the dance with you.im sure she will be pleased and will accept.

    if the worst happend and she said no ,well at least you know youve tried and then you can be free to be loved by someone who loves you back.

    so chin up,back straight ,smile and ask her ';would you like to go to the dance with me';?

    if she says yes then happy days,if she refuses still smile and say ok no worries and find another to go to the dance with.

    either way do it as you dont know till you ask

    best of luck and ive a feeling it will go well.as for your mate dawk or no dawk hes company to go with.image means nothing loyality means everything. go for it i wish u all the luck x and to those sad people writing silly comments about being gay.get a life and back off.are you yourselves maybe in denial of your sexual prefrences?
    I'm a fifteen year old girl and a freshman in high school, so maybe i can help give you some advice. Well, most girls want to be asked politely. First before you ask her, start a small conversation with her. Ask her how her days is, and give her a compliment. Girls love compliments :) Compliment her eyes, her clothing, her smile, her hair...anything! Just be polite, and honest. After which, ask her if she has any plans of going to the dance with anyone. If she says yes for whatever the reason, tell her that it was nice talking to her, and you hope to see her around. Don't look too disappointed. That shows that your desperate, just keep smiling, and keep good eye contact. Be confident, and bold. Girls want a guy who can approach them, and get to the point. If she says that she would love to go with you, say something like oh, great! should i pick you up, or meet you at such and such time? If she says to meet you give her a simple hug and a smile, and tell her you'll see her then. And if she asks to be picked up, ask her about where she lives, and get her number down for directions Simple as that. :)

    Guy problem, PLEASE ANSWER!?

    This year,this guy started flirting with me. He invited me over and we hung out. He would sometimes hug me and he was always talking to me. So i thought he liked me. Every one pressured me to ask him to the Winter Tolo Dance (girls ask guys). He said yes, but then he asked another girl so he wouldn't have to go with me. I was so confused why he had lead me on, and i was so embarrassed and upset. He came up and talked to me. He apologized over and over, saying that he was basically a jerk, i was upset and i cried. He hugged me, i said it was fine. He snuck a two page letter into my binder. The letter was all about how much of a selfish jerk he was. He s said that he did want to go with me, and the reason why he said no in the end was because of peer pressure. He said I was much more better then the girl he s asked. He wrote about how when we hung out, all he thought was how much we had in common, and how badly he wanted just to hold me. Then he begged for me to forgive him, and asked me if i wanted to got to the Tolo. I was going to say no, because i didn't want to be a pity date.



    But then next day at school, he was not there so i couldn't give him my letter in response. But the weird thing was, all of his friends (that are girls) were super super friendly to me, then they invited me over to hang out with them and spend the night, no one ever hangs out with them, they are very seclusive. Anyways SO i guess we're going to the basketball game, he's the captain and would be there. Someone told me that their plan was to get this guy and i together. Do you think he really means what he said in the letter, should i forgive him? DOes he actually feel anything for me. Be as honest as possible. Any advice would be so helpful. Thank you!Guy problem, PLEASE ANSWER!?
    forgive the guy



    no one in the right (male) mind would even bother writing a LETTER of apology to a girl when there are easier ways (txt/call/email). say if i didn't want to go with a girl and felt bad for it, i wouldn't go out of my way to write a letter and explain the situation. id maybe call or talk to them online and explain very briefly the situation/excuse and just kinda hope for the best (she won't turn insane and stab my face the next day)



    give him another shotGuy problem, PLEASE ANSWER!?
    I would forgive him
    I'm sorry but it sounds like he's setting you up to make a fool out of you. Some guys are really mean.If he really meant what he said then he'll come to you.Leave him hanging like he did you and see what happens. His other female friends know to much so hes giving details he shouldn't.

    Girls! Dance tights issues! Need help with technique!?

    So I'm on my school's dance team. And our uni consists of this step-dance-like dress, black pantyhose, and, obviously, black dance shoes. My problem is with the pantyhose. It takes me like ten minutes to get on, and I'm always the last one out of the changing room because of it. It's gotten to the point where i have to get one of my friends to help (I kno, weird lol). But its embarrassing and I've begun to really dread changing because of it. And when I do finally have them on, the gusset is always, like, an inch too low and ugghhhh. I've tried a bigger size, but I still can't get them on without tearing them. I'm not fat or anything. I'm five two and about one hundred and thirteen pounds, so I'm fairly normal.



    How can I get them on faster? What about using like lotion or something to help lube up the skin on the legs?Girls! Dance tights issues! Need help with technique!?
    Practise makes perfect

    - Try and try again to get them on, make that your home work to put on tights



    This website should help you learn to put on your tights

    http://shapings.com/Merchant/merchant.mv鈥?/a>Girls! Dance tights issues! Need help with technique!?
    Lotion will make you gooey, and actually make it harder to get them on. It'll work like glue, not lube.

    It's easiest to put tights on dry skin, so make sure you're not fresh out of the shower either.

    Scrunch the tights all the way down to the toe, and stick your foot in. Then just pull them up your leg. Like this picture, but ignore the white thingy. http://www.tekability.com/catalog/usrima鈥?/a>

    It's also super handy to stretch them before you put them on. I stand on the toes and stretch them up as high as I can reach (or as high as they'll go). Do this a few times to loosen them up. If you don't stretch first it makes sense that they tear or hang too low.

    Or, try putting them on at home and just wearing them under your pants. When you change for your class they're already there! Voila, not a problem.

    You probably just need to practice, they're kind of awkward if you're not used to them.

    So, stretch, scrunch, and slide on up!
    Remember that you don't put on tights like pants, putting your foot through the entire leg. You want to gather the entire leg with your hands, so that you can place your foot right in the foot of the tights. Then you'll pull them up over your legs. If you are going to be changing really quickly, you might want to gather your tights beforehand so that it's super easy to pull them on and go. Hopefully this helps you! I know quickly changing for dance is really hard to get used to. I had to change from a tutu, pink tights, a white leotard, pointe shoes, a choker necklace, and a tiara, into tan tights, black pants, a black leotard, a tank top, jazz shoes, and take off my tiara and necklace all during a three minute song. Remember to have everything ready to go (including your tights) and it should go much smoother. Good luck!
    bunch up the tights then put your foot in and pull up.
    Easy scrunch the pantyhose together and put your foot through it and pull it up your leg.
    Lotion would you just ruin the tights. Bunch up the fabric and pull.

    First high school dance with a girl?

    I am good friends with this one girl and she asked me to the homecoming dance. I have never been to a dance with a girl and need advice on how to grind, slow dance, and just talk with her there with out feeling awkward. I'm really nervous and want to make this easier for myself and I just want to have fun with her.First high school dance with a girl?
    Well, I juss went to a dance last night myselllf,,

    it really isn't that hard to grind you just grind, move yo' *** around and everything.. lol.



    but don't be nervous sweetie I'm sure that everything will be alright..you might think that it will be awkward but trust me it isn't that bad, and I'm sure that you and this girl are reallly close so you'll be fine.



    When you slow dance just move you feet, from side to side.. that is pretty much all that you have to do.



    I'm sure that you'll have tons of funn(:First high school dance with a girl?
    If I were you, now this is coming from a girls point of view... I wouldn't worry too much about grinding on her, some girls don't like that. For slow dances just ask her if she'll dance with you, and i'm sure she'll say yes. And for the talking part, just come up with some questions like, ';So are you having fun?'; Or, ';How do you like the dance so far?'; Simple questions like that...



    Hope I helped a little,

    Just have fun, and don't worry about it too much.

    (:
    First off I will suggest to not grind. It sends out too sexual a message, whether you intend to or not. A slow dance is romantic, always a girl-pleaser.



    Girls LOVE honesty, and you should just tell her you don't know how to dance. Most girls I know, including myself, find it absolutely adorable when guys admit that they can't dance. Chances are, we can't either.



    The environment would be a lot lighter and more comfortable if you got off on a good foot. Plus there will be room to laugh if one of you busts a ridiculously hilarious move.



    Hope I helped =]

    Girls...dance tights problem with uniform...help?

    So I'm on my school's dance team. And our uni consists of this step-dance-like dress, black pantyhose, and, obviously, black dance shoes. My problem is with the pantyhose. It takes me like ten minutes to get on, and I'm always the last one out of the changing room because of it. It's gotten to the point where i have to get one of my friends to help (I kno, weird lol). But its embarrassing and I've begun to really dread changing because of it. And when I do finally have them on, the gusset is always, like, an inch too low and ugghhhh. I've tried a bigger size, but I still can't get them on without tearing them. I'm not fat or anything. I'm five two and about one hundred and thirteen pounds, so I'm fairly normal.



    How can I get them on faster? What about using like lotion or something to help lube up the skin on the legs?Girls...dance tights problem with uniform...help?
    Practise makes perfect

    - Try and try again to get them on, make that your home work to put on tights



    This website should help you learn to put on your tights

    http://shapings.com/Merchant/merchant.mv鈥?/a>Girls...dance tights problem with uniform...help?
    try like scrunching up the pantyhose on your leg. so you take the top part and pull it in, so the leg is scrunched up till its like the size of a sock. then just slip that leg on and repeat. sorry if i cant explain this that well
    Scrunch the tights/pantyhose before you put them on and then slip your leg through...idk if it makes sense but it does when putting tights on! And it also helps if they are ';convertible tights'; (like with the holes on the back of the foot so you can roll em up and stuff)

    How to make a girl enjoy dances?

    Now there's this girl I'm planning on asking to homecoming. I was talking to one of her friends about going to homecoming with her and she talked to her to see what she was doing.



    She said that she wasn't planning on going, even if she was going with someone she liked. Also she went last year and she didn't enjoy it.





    I'm just wondering what I can do that might change her mind about dances?



    I really have no idea.How to make a girl enjoy dances?
    Honestly, have a few drinks before y'all go. It will help loosen both of y'all up and ease the tension. How to make a girl enjoy dances?
    don't try to change her mind. why not try doing something else with her instead of going to homecomming.

    Girls...dance tights help...have a performance tomorrow.?

    So I'm on my school's dance team. And our uni consists of this step-dance-like dress, black pantyhose, and, obviously, black dance shoes. My problem is with the pantyhose. It takes me like ten minutes to get on, and I'm always the last one out of the changing room because of it. It's gotten to the point where i have to get one of my friends to help (I kno, weird lol). But its embarrassing and I've begun to really dread changing because of it. And when I do finally have them on, the gusset is always, like, an inch too low and ugghhhh. I've tried a bigger size, but I still can't get them on without tearing them. I'm not fat or anything. I'm five two and about one hundred and thirteen pounds, so I'm fairly normal.



    Should it be taking me this long and how can I get them on faster? A friend suggested lotion or oils on the legs to help them up, but I think that woudl just make the legs more slippery rather than helping the hoseiry up and it would just make a mess haha. I need a technique...:)Girls...dance tights help...have a performance tomorrow.?
    Practise makes perfect

    - Try and try again to get them on, make that your home work to put on tights



    This website should help you learn to put on your tights

    http://shapings.com/Merchant/merchant.mv鈥?/a>Girls...dance tights help...have a performance tomorrow.?
    lather on some baby powder or vaseline. it will slip rite on. but if that doesnt work, just buy a different pair thats sturdier
    Streatch it b4 u wear it
    Lawl! I had the same problem!

    Its ok :P



    STretch those things then:

    I suggest you not putting lotion or the mixing thing..Its gonna get worse cus ur stocking is gonna stick on tighter.

    Use the old method:



    Put your feet in then grab the bottom.

    There is going to be a clump of rolled stocking on the bottom.

    Pull ur way up with the stocking..

    BLECK its hard to describe..

    How do you grind with a girl at the club?

    My friends want me to go with them to the Club on Monday since I'm not the most ';social'; person and I don't have a girlfriend. So they want me to go with them. Problem is I don't really know how to dance, let alone don't even know HOW to ask a girl at the club to dance with me. And I heard that most girls do that grinding dance at the club, so anyone know what a guy is suppose to do when grinding? And how can I ask a girl to dance with me?How do you grind with a girl at the club?
    Look around and spot a girl you think is hot, a good dancer and is having a good time with her friends.

    Walk towards her way.

    Go up to the girl and ask her if she wants to dance. Note: You do not always have to ask. Sometimes, at bigger parties with more girls, they like it better when you don't talk at all. However, if you happen to know her, it would be better to ask.



    If she says yes, calmly stand behind her and place your hands on her hips.

    Start swaying side to side in a figure-eight shape with slightly bent knees. Again, it doesn't have to be a figure eight, but a lot of the time it's merely a side to side motion, but keep pressure constant, and add variety (girls like that).

    Pay attention to her reactions.

    If she says no, then just walk away and don't force her to or ask lots of questions.

    If she doesn't like it, she might stop and stand there or she will slow down. If so, remove your hands and slowly walk away.

    This is not always the case, and it is possible to help them regain their interest, just do a little more movement, add variety.

    If she does like it, you can get more into it by pressing your body a little harder against her and overall getting closer to her. You can also place your hands somewhere else

    If a song ends and you still would like to dance with her ask her if she would like to dance to another song.

    Most guys would just keep dancing or follow her when she walks away, but then that would not give the girl a chance to say no.

    Be polite and ask her if she would like to go for another song.



    SIMPLE TIPS--

    If she starts to smile, try leaning into her neck; girls like that.

    Stay with the music and move to the beat of the song. If its a fast song, slow down a little so the grinding is more enjoyable.

    Some girls will grab your hands or your neck. This is a good sign; just stay cool and go with it. Don't get nervous!

    Look at your friends or other people if you're unsure of how fast to go.

    Don't seem too desperate. If a girl just doesn't feel like it don't stalk her.

    Play it cool. Let her be in control most of the time and if you feel like things are about to go stale take the lead and show her you got moves.How do you grind with a girl at the club?
    relax, you'll learn it there. its the easiest dance to learn.



    most important: enjoy the music and try to be as horny as possible.
    google it :)
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  • How to control SWEAT at a dance party?

    In October, I went to a birthday party for my friend. It was a boy/girl party. I danced my butt off, so as you can imagine, I was pretty sweaty. My hair got really frizzy, and I got a gross sweat mark on my back. I am going to a party on New Years Eve, and it is also a boy/girl dance party. I am planning on wearing a strapless shirt layered with a tank top, like this...



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    with this under it...



    http://www.jessicafans.org/pics/Jessica-Alba-Hot-White-Tanktop.jpg



    How can I control not getting sweaty all over? I would be willing to buy something, because my crush will be there. I use Secret Clinical Protection deodorant.



    Any tips?



    XOxoXOoxoXO



    Jen.How to control SWEAT at a dance party?
    I have this problem too. It sucks and I'm just praying that it ends when puberty does. I use Perspirex. It's about 拢6 and you can get it anywhere (Tesco's, chemists, etc.) It's really good provided you don't have really sensitive or dry skin under your arms.How to control SWEAT at a dance party?
    in addition to deodorant, i know friends who put tissues under their arms to absorb the sweat before it soaks in the the shirt or dress. and they change them in the bathroom when they feel they need to
    your first link doesnt work.





    but my suggestion is going and getting perscriped for DRYSOL.



    thats what i use, its amazing.

    Cute hairstlye for camp dance?

    i am going to sky ranch (summer camp) and there is a dance on the last day and i am concerned with how i should wear my hair. it is a guy/girl dance so i want to look nice. any suggestions?



    ps: i usually wear my hair (during the week) in a bun with a poof. i have naturally really wavy hair that is frizzy but looks super cute in a bun/poof. i could straighten it for the dance, but like everyone does that, and all it does is frizz.



    thanks(:Cute hairstlye for camp dance?
    I always love this look.... find someone who can french braid similar to corn rows. Have them part your hair into 4 (top of head to bottom and side to side about the ear). From the top of your head, braid down until the part at your ear on both sides and from the bottom of your head, braid up until the part. Then take whats left over from the braid and make a crazy bun out of it leaving hair out.Cute hairstlye for camp dance?
    it looks reallly cute in braids or with a poof, may be u should just scrunch it. it would look really cute
    you have gorgeous hairr!

    Girl Drama. How to see inside a girl's mind?

    So I am a boy who goes to a mainly girls dance studio. There is girl I like, lets say her name is Laura. So Laura has been a great friend of mine until about 3 weeks ago. Then she started to either constantly be around me or completely ignore me. Also she said ';I love you'; to me the first time during this period AND posted a heart after her comment on my facebook wall. She never posts hearts on a boys wall. She gets a boyfriend the day before she does the thing with the hearts. She also won't accept any apologies from me for being a jerk and asking her about why she was ignoring me. What do you think is going on? Any theory will be greatly appreciated.

    Remember the best answer wins a prize



    talked to my best friend ( who also is my crushes close friend) She said that she thinks, but is not sure, that my crush likes me but doesn't know what I would think about it if she told me or is trying to get over me.



    I am asking what you people think she thinks of me, not if I should ask her outShe does not think I am gay. That is where she knows me from. She also knows that I liked her 5 months ago

    And I just want to know what you think she thinks of me, I am not asking if I should ask her outGirl Drama. How to see inside a girl's mind?
    I think she sees you as a good friend from dance class...Girl Drama. How to see inside a girl's mind?
    I am not psychic and can't actually see inside her mind. I just told you what I thought.

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    IMPORTANT! PLEASE HELP!WELL GUYS THE SKELETONS CAME OUT OF THE CLOSET I NOW KNOW THE TRUTH!?

    WELL I WAS ON HERE TWO DAYS AGO WORRYING ABOUT MY BOYFRIEND NOT CALLING IN FIVE DAYS AND IGNORING ME WELL GUESS WHAT! EARLY MORNING YESTERDAY HE PUT ME #6 ON HIS MYSOACE AND PUT ANOTHER GIRL #1 AND SAID HE WAS SINGLE SO I PUT HIM #0 BUT THEN HE BROKE UP WITH ME YESTERDAY JUNE 23,2009 AT LIKE 6:45PM YES I KNOW BAD MISTAKE BUT I HONESTLY KNEW IT WAS COMING CAUSE WHEN HE SAID HE WAS HAVING PROBLEMS IT CAME TO MIND HE WANNA BREAK UP AND I ASKED AND I WAS RIGHT SO AFTER THAT I CRY A LOT SERIOUSLY I COULD HAVE STARTED MY OWN SWIMMING POOL LOL BUT AFTER THAT HE TELLS ME NOT TO BE MAD WHICH I ALREADY WAS I MEAN I GAVE HIM 3 YEARS AND 6 MONTHS OF MY LIFE AND HE RIPS OUT MY HEART AND THROWS IT IN THE TRASH CAN LITERALLY SO THEN HE TELLS ME NOT TOO CRY {TOO LATE} AND WE CAN BE GOOD FRIENDS SI-KE! WHY WOULD I DO THAT AND THEN HE TELLS ME THAT HE KNOW I WANNA BE WITH HIM LIKE IM DESPERATE OR SOMETHING SO THEN I TELL HIM HOW I FEEL AND HE SAID I UPSET HIM AND THAT'S NOT TRUE I DON'T THINK SO,SO AFTER ALL THAT I CALL MY FRIENDS SOBBING AND CRYING AND THEY WERE THERE FOR ME AND MADE ME FEEL BETTER AND THEN MY BEST FRIEND HIS COUSIN CALLS ME AND TELLS ME WHY HE BROKE UP WITH ME SHE SAID HE SAID I WAS TOO YOUNG AND WANTED A GIRLFRIEND WHO WAS OLDER WHICH IM 17 BOUT TO BE 18 IN AUGUST 30 AND HE'S 18 AND I DONT GET OUT MUCH BECAUSE MY PARENTS CAN BE OVER PROTECTED PLUS I HAVE LYRICAL DANCE PRACTICE AND DANCING GIRL PRACTICE EVERYDAY AND HE LOST HIS CONNECTION WITH ME WHICH I'VE TRYED TO WORK OUT I USE TO TELL HIM TO COME OVER MY HOUSE AND HE WOULDNT HE WOULDNT EVEN CALL ME EVERYDAY MAYBE TWICE A MONTH ALL HE DID WAS TEXT AND THAT GETS BORING BUT ITS ALL GOOD I DELETED ALL HIS PICTURES CHANGED HIS NAME TO {THAT GUY} AND EVERYTHING AND I HOPE HE DELETED MY PICTURES TO BUT MY FRIEND TELLS ME TO BE COOL AND BE THERE FOR HIM AND STUFF FOR WHEN HE NEEDS HELP HA LIKE THATS EVER GONING TO HAPPEN I DONT KNO WHATS GOING ON WHAT SHOULD I DO



    DO YOU THINK HE WAS WRONG



    DO YOU THINK IM OVER IT NOW



    DO YOU THINK HE HAD ANOTHER GIRL ON THE SIDE



    I NEED YOUR OPINION DOMEONE PLEASE HELP



    DO YOU THINK HE WAS USING ME FOR SEX IM STILL A VIRGIN

    BUT HE WANTED IT BAD



    DO YOU THINK IM WRONG FOR NOT BEING HIS FRIEND



    AND SHOULD I WISH HIM A HAPPY BDAY NEXT MONTH



    AND SORRY ITS SO LONG THANKS IN ADVANCE BOOKIE BOOZ%26lt;3 AND NO RUDE ANSWERS PLEASEIMPORTANT! PLEASE HELP!WELL GUYS THE SKELETONS CAME OUT OF THE CLOSET I NOW KNOW THE TRUTH!?
    1. wow you been together for 3 years. and now it's all gone down the drain because of him. he just stopped loving you. he is now indifferent towards you.

    2. you are NOT over him now. you will be like that for a few weeks just yet. trust me.

    3. yes he has a girlfriend on the side

    4. don't be his friend. be indifferent to him from now on. indifference is the opposite of love. not hate. not anger. and NO you are not wrong for NOT wanting to be his friend anymore. you HAVE every right to do that because he HURT you REAL BAD.

    5. don't wish him a happy birthday next month. he will just think ';oh no she texting me again hoping i would wanna get back with her';



    you stop thinking about this man. he does NOT deserve you. you DESERVE way better than this.



    girl if he still loved you he will not do all these things. am sorry to tell you that he don't love you anymore. so you should just CUT OFF all ties with him. coz if you don't he will just continue thinking that he is your life and he will think of you as pathetic in the long run. STOP thinking about him although i KNOW it's hard to do it. but THAT is the ONLY way to go.IMPORTANT! PLEASE HELP!WELL GUYS THE SKELETONS CAME OUT OF THE CLOSET I NOW KNOW THE TRUTH!?
    err idk i mean the guy had no reason to stay. Why would he stay with a girl he's not sleeping with. okay sex isnt everything but then there's no connection for love either so i mean from this guy's view the way i see it.

    Once had love; something but not love isnt there. Is anything still there? barely feel it?

    No sex

    No Sex, No Love...why would anyone be in a relationship then? its either one or the other if not both. None of any would be useless to be in a relationship then.





    If his angel was sex then prob yeah but i mean u knw, he's 18 and wants sex and you're underage, unavailable and not gonna give him any anytime soon. Why would he stay? You loved him yes but i mean you had practice which though understandable left nothing for him. I mean its not like he can say okay you got practice so we;ll do something some othertime because you dont go out much. Coming over to your house probably was too much for him, being so close to your girl, no sex and no distractions and the parents issue also. I mighta stayed away as well rather than pressuring you. So i think he broke up with u badly, could have done better but he wasnt entirely wrong tho
    Sex is a very large need for a man..for you love,and appreciation are the big things...he fullfills your needs, but you don't fllfill his..=dealbreaker! If you won't accomodate his needs..another woman will..and yes I think once he realized you weren't going to have sex..he went looking for it somewhere else.

    How to ask girls to dance and not get rejected?

    I'll make it short. I'm 16 btw. There was a dance the other night and I danced with 17 diff girls but was rejected 5-6 times. I want a 0% rejection rate! What can I do to seperate myself from the rest of the guys that ask girls? Tips? Suggestions? Personal experiences? Thanks beforehand for all of your responses.How to ask girls to dance and not get rejected?
    17 girls, huh, nothing went wrong with the fact that you danced with 17 but 5 or 6 times you got canned, you did really good, but because of how many girls you danced with could have been a turn-off for the girls that rejected you. If you really want to separate your self from the rest of the guys and be the one that all the girls want, you have to appear as if you are the top dog in the place, show them that you are confident, assertive, and dominant, but not in the way of being the crazy jacked up a--whole that everyone knows. Be cool, have style about who you are and how you dress. Now here's the kicker, that 0% rejection rate you want, sorry but that's fales, you just don't have chances like that, it just doesn't work that way, you are going to have times when no matter what you do, in the end she will still reject you, doesn't matter how hard you try, if you can't learn about what's going on before you even have a try at asking her to dance (or this could even be for a date) you'll get the same thing. But remember that you wrote that you got to dance with 17 different girls that night, that's better than what most guys can do. Rejection, that just comes with it no matter what area it is; if it happens so what there's always another chance of you finding someone else.How to ask girls to dance and not get rejected?
    You will never get a zero rejection rate. All girls like different things in a guy.
    Be really hot, kind, smart, and funny? There's no way to avoid rejection. Even if you were perfect, that doesn't mean all girls would be attracted to you. Just be courageous and confident and accept the possible consequences.
    im sorry

    but its basically impossible to get rejected...once in a while there will be rejection. life is like this

    well, to get a lower rate, probably make a joke (girls like jokes...people that make them laugh:))

    also..if u r handsome or cute..also if the girl is not shy, they will accept, if they are they wont dance with u. lol

    so...just be polite, laugh, and relax..there's nothing much u can do

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    What is this song I heard at a hockey game?

    I was at another admirals game and this song came on. It was sung by a girl singer and I really didn't get a good chance to here the song but it starts out with ';Today I am away, there playing my song';. I think that is how it goes. I saw a lot of girls dancing when this song was being played. The genre might be hip hop. Not sure I hope this helps.What is this song I heard at a hockey game?
    Could it be Miley Cyrus- Party in the USA? That's definately a girl-friendly song! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5a4eUM0i4TkWhat is this song I heard at a hockey game?
    Definetly is Miley Cyrus-Party in the USA

    Can anyone help me this is an S.O.S!!!?

    Ok the problem is I really like these 3 girls there all really nice, smart, and down to Earth, but I want to go out with one of them. I have feelings for all of them so how would i decide which one to go out with. Ive known one of them for 4yrs but she's my ex, and the other two for about 9 months. I'm positive they have feelings for me and so do I what do I do I'm so confused can anyone help me?



    Girl # 1- She's ahtletic, smart, very nice but shy, cute ,and really likes me. she's also a year older than me.



    Girl # 2- She's funny, smart, nice, outgoing, she's gorgeous and she loves to dance.



    Girl # 3- Very hot, smart, emotional, and nice, she also loves to dance and i've known her the longest.



    Help.....Can anyone help me this is an S.O.S!!!?
    ok best thing don't go back out with your exCan anyone help me this is an S.O.S!!!?
    it depends what ur looking for in the relationship... do u want to go back to what you had before with the one you hav already been with or do u wanna try something new?

    Stuck in the ';Friend Zone';? PLEASE HELP!?

    Okay, I've been friends with this girl for about 2 years. Ironically, I was a big nerd and the first thing she said to me was ';Do you want a ho lap dance?'; (Just to see what I would say). We've been friends from there on. I've gone to many different girls and they all ended up sucking (not literally). I finally realized the right girl has been there all along. Ho lap dance girl, who is really not a ho. I've been getting to hang around her a lot more than normal. I ASKED HER OUT She gave me a little ';what?'; face and she basically can't get over that I can be more than ';buddy';. She likes me, I am the total bomb (admitted form other people) in the grade. I've always just been.......';buddy';......she said she'd see a movie as friends, but how do I convince her to promote me?Stuck in the ';Friend Zone';? PLEASE HELP!?
    Usually once you are in the friend zone, it is hard to get out. What you need to do, is get her used to the idea slowly. Start MILDLY flirting with her. Don't give her compliments all the time, like ';you are so pretty'; once you are in the friend zone, doing things like that will keep her there. Leave some mystery... let her know you might be interested in someone else, or date other people and bring them around her (without shoving it in her face). Once she sees that other women are interested in YOU, something strange happens and it makes you become desirable. She may start to question her feelings for you. Just start slowly giving her hints, and stop acting like her friend and act how you would with any other girl you have a crush on. Go to google and search ';how to go farther than the friend zone'; or something like that. I once saw an article on datingish.com that was called ';the friend zone ladder';. If you can find it on there, it will give you the PERFECT tips on how not to get ';friend zoned';. Just search on the web for tips... you will find some good stuff.Stuck in the ';Friend Zone';? PLEASE HELP!?
    Grab her boob and see what happens.



    Answer mine:

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    Just remain friends for now on because if you force her, you will end up embarrassing yourself. Who knows? She could be falling in love with you in the future.
    Once in the friend zone usually always in the friend zone unless you act interested in other girls
    Well since your already her friend, find out what she likes in a boy and what she likes to do. you know like her hobbies, and diferent things like that. and kinda sorta be the perfect guy for her. also, find out her dislikes, and never do them.
    You can't make someone want to make you her bf or love you. Some people are just meant to be friends. Just go to that movie and be yourself talk about how you feel about her, and if she still said she only sees you as a friend, you should take it you don't wanna make her feel preassured to the point where she feels akward around you and doesn't even want to be your friend anymore.
    Take your time and let her get used to the idea. Don't push. Just be yourself make her laugh. Don't suffocate her with your presence at this point, give her time to miss you. Don't crowd her. Let her see another side of you like maybe things that make you sad, things that scare you, maybe share some of your dreams. Do this stuff on the dates with her. When you call her make the calls short. Then when she starts calling you, you'll know she is interested in more than friendship.
    I hate that, seriously man, I know that feeling. Its going to stay as friends only until she realizes that loves you more than she knows. Just dont push it and let time do the work.
    It might scare her to think that if you two start to be more than friends and the relationship doesn't work then that friendship could be ruined. I'd take things slow for now and try not to be too clingy (not that you are now) and just talk about the possibility of be more than friends causually. You don't want to ';scare'; her off. But she might just think of you as a great frined, so all you can really do right now is just be there for her when she needs someone to talk to and listen to what she has to say. Make sure that she knows that you're someone she can count on. You can't push her, it kind of just has to happen. Hopefully she'll realize soon how much she means to you and you guys can be in a different ';zone'; All you have to do is try to give her time and understanding. She's got feel it or else neither of you will be happy. Good luck!
    well i am sorry but as a girl this mean s we are just friends nothing more unless things change. i am sorry but mayb to get outta the friend zone is to simpliy ask her to movies an restraunts more often. good luck!!! an always remember if things dont work out she just wasnt the right one

    Please HELP! Friend Zone?

    Okay, I've been friends with this girl for about 2 years. Ironically, I was a big nerd and the first thing she said to me was ';Do you want a ho lap dance?'; (Just to see what I would say). We've been friends from there on. I've gone to many different girls and they all ended up sucking (not literally). I finally realized the right girl has been there all along. Ho lap dance girl, who is really not a ho. I've been getting to hang around her a lot more than normal. I ASKED HER OUT She gave me a little ';what?'; face and she basically can't get over that I can be more than ';buddy';. She likes me, I am the total bomb (admitted form other people) in the grade. I've always just been.......';buddy';......she said she'd see a movie as friends, but how do I convince her to promote me?Please HELP! Friend Zone?
    hmmm, yea i understand your problem if she really liked u and cared bout u. i think she probably got scared u nevera noe or she waas probably shocked becuz dat happenz. but she wouldd of said yes when u asked her out, but 2 convince her sumtimez gurlz need affectionn n ask her how was ur day and everything talk 2 her bout thingz becuz reall close if u aren't (((no homo))) get 2 noe thingz dat u nevera knew bout her...i hope ma advise workz :] srry if it doesn'tPlease HELP! Friend Zone?
    i dont know. i htink you should tell her how you will treat he rif you do go out with her.
    dunno

    Stuck in the ';Friend Zone';? PLEASE HELP!?

    Okay, I've been friends with this girl for about 2 years. Ironically, I was a big nerd and the first thing she said to me was ';Do you want a ho lap dance?'; (Just to see what I would say). We've been friends from there on. I've gone to many different girls and they all ended up sucking (not literally). I finally realized the right girl has been there all along. Ho lap dance girl, who is really not a ho. I've been getting to hang around her a lot more than normal. I ASKED HER OUT She gave me a little ';what?'; face and she basically can't get over that I can be more than ';buddy';. She likes me, I am the total bomb (admitted form other people) in the grade. I've always just been.......';buddy';......she said she'd see a movie as friends, but how do I convince her to promote me?Stuck in the ';Friend Zone';? PLEASE HELP!?
    Well hang out with her and how her why she should be with you. It might take time, but you need to think about what you have to offer and show herStuck in the ';Friend Zone';? PLEASE HELP!?
    Well you can't make her feel a certain way, but you can help her realize what she's losing by not going out with you, because it seems like you do care for her. It's not always the best thing to do, but you can always try to make her jealous? Start talking to another girl, see if she notices. :]
    Sounds a lot like a situation I went through.



    Now that she knows you like her, give her a little time to kind of let it settle in her mind. Try and be a little playful or teasing...you know just flirt. If she likes you back, she'll be open to the whole thing and it won't be hard to do.
    show her how cool u r! make her laugh and make her want you. and tell her how ur feel. jus say, ';hey dont take this in the wrong way or anything i jus wanna say that i feelll.....'; and go on from there.she should understand.
    YEA they're all hos *** her and leave her, then find the one out of 100 who ain't and marry her, just hope she's not materialistic or ur fuked.
    You can never leave the friend zone once you're in, bro.

    Find a new girl, soon as you can.
    just be yourself around her and if she doesnt like you for who you truly are, she isnt worth it.
    who are u.. Ryan Reynolds in ''JUST FRIENDS''
    I wouldn't force it. I've had this happen to me, but on her end. Guy friends have asked me out and it can really weird a girl out. My advise is DON'T ask her out again. Not until you know you both feel the same way. This can be stressful on girls. It makes them feel weird when they say no, she didn't want to hurt your feelings and she might think you are mad, or sad. Act normal, like nothing happened and stay close friends with her. Maybe get a little closer. If it happens it happens, and if it doesn't, I'm sure there are other girls perfect for you. :)
    im in the same situation right know. I just kinda asked a really good friend out and she said all she wanted was friends. It sucks i no. I think the best thing to do is respect that and give her some space. you can still hang out with her as friends just dont pressure her. Make her feel comfortable and show her that you are a geniune nice guy and maybe youll grow on her. Dont force anything on her. Thats the most important part cause im sure youd rather have her as a friend than not at all.



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  • Help with asking out a friend!!! HELP!?

    Okay, I've been friends with this girl for about 2 years. Ironically, I was a big nerd and the first thing she said to me was ';Do you want a ho lap dance?'; (Just to see what I would say). We've been friends from there on. I've gone to many different girls and they all ended up sucking (not literally). I finally realized the right girl has been there all along. Ho lap dance girl, who is really not a ho. I've been getting to hang around her a lot more than normal. I ASKED HER OUT She gave me a little ';what?'; face and she basically can't get over that I can be more than ';buddy';. She likes me, I am the total bomb (admitted form other people) in the grade. I've always just been.......';buddy';......she said she'd see a movie as friends, but how do I convince her to promote me?



    I was thinking of going to a movie as friends, or finding out why she only wants to be friends and convince her otherwise.....what are your thoughts?Help with asking out a friend!!! HELP!?
    just be like hey girl wats up do u want to see a movie this saturday with a couple of friends but u sit beside her in the movie and play like footsies on floorHelp with asking out a friend!!! HELP!?
    You should just tell her that you have strong feelings for her. Tell her why you think she should make you her boyfriend, and why you like her. It might even be good to take her to a movie as friends or invite her over for movie night at your house. Take some time to just talk things out. Tell her whats up, but dont ask her out right away. Just kinda hint. like say ';look im not gonna lie. i really like you. and i need to know if you have feelings for me at all.'; or something like that. hope this helps.
    sorry to tell you this but you can't force someone to change how they feel about you. if you try to you not only risk losing a close friend but you risk embarrassing yourself. i've done the same thing in the past I spent 6 months chasing a girl who only wanted to be friends. in the end i ended up still friends(luckily) but no closer to my intended goal. but if you wanted to give it a try good luck. i could be wrong, not all situations are the same, just do the best you can with whatever comes.