My boyfriend likes to watch me dance with other girls. Sometimes a girl will come up and dance with me or with both of us on the dance floor. I am okay with this scenario.
However, often he asks a girl who is dancing by herself (or with another girl) to dance with me. He will also ask me to just go start dancing with another girl on the dance floor who is dancing by herself. It bothers me and sometimes I get an attitude and stop dancing all together. I am shy and going up to another girl to dance is not really appealing to me. And having him ask another girl to dance with me makes me feel weird. I feel bad about it, but I can't help how I feel. He wants to watch me in bed with another girl, but I am completely straight and have no desire. And I think this is why I get upset because I feel that dancing with another girl brings up this other stuff in my head. And I really just have no desire to dance with other girls in general. What do you all think? Should I lighten up or are there bigger issues that I should be concerned about?My boyfriend likes to watch me dance with another girl when we go out. Am I wrong to be unhappy about this?
if you feel uncomfortable in this relationship then why are you in it. it is very obvious that your bf is very attractive to you being with other women and if it makes you feel weird then break it offMy boyfriend likes to watch me dance with another girl when we go out. Am I wrong to be unhappy about this?
Guys are attracted to lesbians. That's why.
He shouldn't use you for his own sexual needs.
Dumb his ***
You are definately not wrong!! But try to get to the root of the cause...
You don't mind %26amp; very gently , softly %26amp; casually ask why he wants you to dance with other girl... Tell him you feel very bad about it.. You say yuo dont like it at all...
If still he says so u may deny strictly....
You got the rights to be unhappy about this. You should tell him how you feel about this.
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