How do you dance? im 19 and from north east jersey ;(?

ok so obviously this is super embarassing and i feel like a loser so if you dont have anything nice to say please dont say it. im 19 and from north east jersey pretty close to the city i know people dance different in different areas and i have no idea how to dance in fact it makes me really nervous. my boyfriend really wants to go to a club with me and is always saying he cant wait for me to be 21 so we can go. i try to make it sound like im joking and i tell him oh no i cant dance and he is just like neither can i well be drunk and make an as$ out of ourselves it will be fun. but i feel kind of silly because i have absolutley nooo clue how to dance. like when a song were to come on i wouldnt know what to do. i have neer been to a club reallly though i dont know im nervous any tips on how to dance what to expect? any sites that teach dancing. i mean honeslty in my area all the girls dance like you know whats pretty dirty and stuff and i dont want to do that but i dont want to stand out like a sore thumb either i just want to blend and not feel awkward :( so if you know any sites you think could help me or anything at all i would appreciate it so much because this whole thing is really upsetting i feeel like a loser and any help would be super appreciatedHow do you dance? im 19 and from north east jersey ;(?
Don't feel like a loser. You're just nervous. Everyone can learn how to dance. No lie. It's just a question of relaxing and finding a style that suits you. The word 'dance' encompasses so many different ideas, covers so many different areas, that to ask if one can in general 'dance' it would be a bit like saying 'I can speak.' In what language, what dialect? For instance, ballet dancers must be highly trained, but think about it, not all ballerinas will be able to transition into belly dancing, or pop and lockin.



So, first thing, look around for a class that suits you, and makes you feel comfortable. You're not gonna be able to learn it off some site, trust me. It's all about the small details, and an online teacher won't be able to correct your mistakes. I recommend salsa- it's extremely popular and easy to learn, especially if you're dedicated. Belly dancing is great too, and teaches you to isolate the stomach muscles (compliments winding perfectly too... but that's another story!) After finding a style that suits you, it's only a matter of turning that passion and knowledge of your style into something that you can really express at a club. And you know, dancing is something you can only get better at. And you will get better. Practice, practice, practice, and ENJOY it.



Alternatively, you could embrace the side of you that can't dance, dance anyway and in the process learn a thing or two. When you do go out, the amount of people who will just be standing there bobbing and jerking up and down and just having a good time will surprise you ;)How do you dance? im 19 and from north east jersey ;(?
Hey.u don't hv 2 be nervous...TRUST GOD!!!!i'll give u an advice...according 2 me u should watch videos based on dance.search on youtube.com,google.co.in,yahoo,com etc..it really works..please don't ever think that you cannot dance..u can.You should watch movies..like where film stars dance....learn those steps...

REMEMBER 2 MOTTOS IN DANCE--



''I CAN, I WILL, I MUST!!!';AND THE SECOND 1 IS--PRACTISE MAKES A MAN PERFECT!!!!!!!!!!!!!DON'T OOSE HOPE AND KEEP DANCING.
Hmm is it like a dance electro club?

Cuz if it isss you just feeel it ;)

Don't be shy :]

Just go with the beaat!