Well homecoming is coming in week or two and there is always the homecoming dance. Well like alwaysI go to the dance with friend hang out dance blah blah. Well this time I kind of want to take a girl out to the dance and well you know dance. The problem is though I don't have the confidence and I suck at facing rejection so any hints or ideas about how i should build my confidence and ask a girl to the dance. Also ideas such as what i should wear or basically anything else would help. Thanks!Asking a girl out to the dance girls please answer!?
first of all, don't destroy yourself if you get rejected. this probably means they're busy, they're going with someone, or they just aren't ready. its fine, don't worry.
be open about the question, and avoid asking her infront of friends. they can use peer presure to change her answer.
IF SHE SAYS NO;
';Oh, thats cool. Well have fun any way then. See ya.'; and then you can even add ';Maybe some other time.';
IF SHE SAYS YES;
act sweet, then ask for her number.now!
tips
1.) you can tell if a girl isn't lying about having plans- she'll look you right in the eye and not hesitate. usually she'll smile.
2.) you know she's looking forward to going if she either acts un normally calm or abnormally giggly.
3.) girls like tuxes.
4.) be nice and extra social to all of her friends. if they talk good about you, then your good to go.
5.) If you asked her and she said no, then later in class she whispers to her friend and points at you then watch the friends facial expressions. if they laugh then she doesn't like you. if they turn red or they flirt-giggle then she does.Asking a girl out to the dance girls please answer!?
Just ask her openly, Be like hey do you have a date for homecoming? Maybe we can go together if you'd like.
Just wear pants and a button down.
sneak into the principals office and ask her over the intercom so the whole school can hear it, and if she says no she is a b*tch and if she says yes you have a date, either way everyone will think that you have balls for doing that
ok so go up too her and say hi
then ask her ';will you go to homecoming with me?';
just imagine she's not there
dont be shy ,. just if u like a girl and bring it up in a convo .. like hey cant wait till homecoming hbu then she will say yeah so excited then u say r u going with anyone then she says no then u say u wanna go with me and she will say yes .... but think positive if u think negitive it wont turn out right.... and wear a tux :) or something nice
Awww, don't worry about rejection. Everyone has to deal with it at some point in their lives. You can never be fully human if you don't deal with it at some point lolz.
So just think about what girls you know that you like a lot and that are really good friends of yours. Say you like Amy and you're good friends with her. Well, at lunch (or whenever you can) talk to her. Just start a regular, every day conversation. Then ask her, ';Amy? You know how homecoming's in a week? Well, I was wondering if you'd like to come with me?';
If she says no, then oh well. You tried, and that's all that matters. But keep in mind that if she says no, act cool about it or else that'll be like a huge wrecking ball to your friendship.
And if she says yes, then BRAVO!!!!
Have fun ^.^
Feel confident. Hit the gym if you aren't already. Seeing results always puts a smile on my face. Being aware of your faults, and not just your pros, makes you a better person. Ask the girl out, knowing that you are everything that she would want in a guy on that day. Do your best at getting her a corsage, limo ride, etc, but it's not just the money. It's the effort that counts. A well fitted tux is usually the norm. Nothing tacky. Go for the classic. Salesmen at Moore's or Harry Rosen help out quite nicely with fit and all. Tell them your budget, and they'll work within it. Don't use a disgusting gel (that turns hard). Shower, brush your teeth and floss, get a haircut (simple and classic style is just fine), clip your nails, shave or trim your facial hair nicely, be polite and don't get nervous! You're out to have some fun too!
Hope you have fun!
Wishing you the best,
Roger
Just believe in yourself! If there is one girl in particular...ask her now. If you have no body particular in mind then that makes it easier. Just do it. Put that fear aside. It will get you nowhere in life. The saying nothing ventured nothing gained is so very true. What is the worst that will happen? So she could say no, big deal.The day will come that you will have you pick of the litter. You just have to get that self confidence up. You can do this!! Now...GO GET HER! I hope that this has helped and good luck and enjoy the dance.
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