How do i dance??How do i start dancing with a girl??

Hey all. I'm a 14 year old guy and a freshman in highschool. Today we had our first dance and like other kids who couldn't dance, i just walked around the dance floor watching and pretending to be into the dancing. We mostly, probobly only have rap music, E Bay Bay, Crank Dat Souljah Boy etc.. I'm a rock sort of guy so i don't really the songs, and i can't dance. Some kids ';grind'; meaning they are in the back of a girl and moving sorta, How do i do it correctly???? I am not the best looking guy, and im sorta chubby. Im 145lb and 5'4. My question is how do i dance? How do i start to dance with a girl? Thx!!!How do i dance??How do i start dancing with a girl??
well if ur not hot no-ones gunna wanna dance with you.. the best thingg i think would to go in a ';train'; its a whole line of people grinding.. when u grind for guys u put your arms either on her hips or on her thighs and justt move back and forth.. u moight get a ***** thoughh ./ and let the girl lead uHow do i dance??How do i start dancing with a girl??
Honestly, the dancing style of kids your age is pretty simple, especially for the guys. Your job is to basically stand there, with your knees bent, and kind of just rockin to the beat. You usually do not even have to pick your feet up. If you are standing behind the girl, you usually put your crotch on her butt area and do what I described. If you are facing each other, you kind of put your legs between each others and do what I described. Man, I hate this kind of dancing, but I know there is no other way at your age.
Ok, first, relax :) Start slow, not every girl likes grinding, not the best place to start. Start with the two step, place your feet on the floor, and step from one side to the next, try to do this in tune to a song. That will get you in the mood.



Dancing is an art, some people do it naturally, others have to learn. I recommend watching various music videos with the kind of dancing you want to do, there many different types, and you should find the one that's right for you. Watch them over and over, practicing the moves.



Best of luck :)
well if u wanna become comfortable w/ dancing in front of other people try playing dance dance revolution.

then maybe have a friend (girl) practice w/ u
REAL TALK, i am 14 to we got our dance in about next week.



try to look good for the ladies, don't exaggerate though



I know depending on the girl,

some girls just dance in groups ,then a guy comes behind them and starts grinding without asking

Some girls like a tap on the shoulder or something or asking



Like since your probably new to it



Dont ask her if she looks really good or is in a popular crowd i guess because she will just say no more or likely while with her friends.



So just dance if you dont want to get to close keep a little space between her butt and your front. dont be to close on her or she might feel VIOLATED.



So just move with the beat while dancing with her. Maybe hold her waist or hands while dancing with her. Or you could just stand their and let her butt smash your balls lol.



good luck anyways