My girl always says she loves me. She always says she misses me. But she's planning on going to a party next week. I'm not going because I'm out of the city that weekend. She openly expressed to me that she'll be dancing with other guys. I'm talking grinding on other guys...
I didn't tell her how I feel about it yet.. Because we've already gotten into a few arguments in the past and I don't want to have another.
What do I do? Am I at least right for being upset? Been together for over 6 months.My girl dances with other guys..?
I don't see the problem here. Theres nothing wrong with her dancing with other guys.My girl dances with other guys..?
Of course you should be upset. That is your girlfriend and grinding up on other guys is not right. She should only be griding up on you. That just shows that she is a flirt. Even if she says that she just loves to dance doesn't mean anything. To the other guys, it is showing them that this girl is flirting and is interested. Tell her about it, even if you have to argue. She has to know it is not right. I am sure she would not like you dancing with other girls. If she gives you any problems she is not respecting your wishes and you should reconsider being with her.
no you aren't totally wrong for getting mad it seems kinda messed ot dance at least the griding kind of dancing with others guys when you're not there
but shes probably wants you to trust her, shes telling you now so its not a huge shocker if you heard it from someone else so that good i guess
but if its been 6 moths and you guys love each other maybe tell her it makes you feel a little uncomfortable but in a nice way. And if shes mad because she feels you dont trust her i guess explain that you do its just you feel that ... (and explain how you feel here lol)
maybe say it would piss you off if she does that ask her to consider your feelings.
women don't understand all the guys she dances with think they are in with a chance, either that or they do know but just don't care.
put the foot down
Girls love to dance, everyone knows that, but imo if she tells you she is going to then she probably cares deeply about you. It wouldn't be overreacting to ask her not to do it. Just don't get to carried away.
Well then have a serious talk with her but DON'T ORDER HER AROUND cause then she'll probably leave you
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maybe you should talk to her about it calmly,
dont yell or get to worked up about it,
just show her that you care.
tell her before hand. you cant get mad if you don't tell her how you feel
You've been together for 6 months. She told you that she'd be dancing with other guys to ward you from jealousy. Imagine how you'd feel if she'd just start dancing with some random stranger without warning you? That's a lot worse mate.
The darker side is that because you've been having a hard time over your 6 months, maybe she's getting bored with you. If that's the case, try to please her for few days, see if she loosens up. You can also try giving her a massive orgasm, that usually changes their minds too.
It's your choice sir.
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