How do I dance with girls?URGENT!!!?

So I've now been to 4 dances and have never grinded with a girl. I'm 15 years old and I really want to, but whenever I get to the dance I just freeze up and can't get the courage. I'm a pretty shy person so that might be it, but it might also be the thought that I could get rejected. What do you Suggest I do to gain courage?How do I dance with girls?URGENT!!!?
At my high school's dances, The Hawk, Mario, and crew watched people to make sure there was no grinding...How do I dance with girls?URGENT!!!?
dude if you never ask you'll never learn. Take a chance
stop thinking about what your doing, think about the girl.
Go with whatever they do. Whatever feels natural based on their actions.
i say juust start simple and go bigger
THE SAME WAY YOU DANCE WITH GUYS LOL
stand behind her put ur hands on her hips and move ur crotch area close to her butt. then just move with the music
i love when a guy asks me to dance. and just star off slow there isnt much guys hav to do. im sure once you start u'll be fine. there's no rule book, u just hav 2 feel it
Dont be so self-concious! If you asked a girl to the dance and she said yes YOUR IN THE CLEAR shes going cause she wants to dance with YOU so dont freak out! just act like yourself =)
to hurley: he JUST asked, nincompoop.



All you need to do is loosen up. When you see a group of guys and girls grinding, go up to that group and grind your *** off



Best wishes
Be Yourself, Feel the Music, Listen to the Beat, and whatever your body does, Go with it!
This was such a sweet question!



You have noooo idea how many girls want guys to dance more. Ask a girl to dance during faster songs, or join a group of them when they're dancing to something on the faster side. Then once the music switches to something slow, just ask one of them from the group - this way the girls know who you are and they know you just like to dance (to any song) - they won't think you're just some creep trying to cop a feel when grinding.
start with the desperate girls (nerdy, big, or like weird girls) that sounds weird but really.

you dont ask if you can grind with them, you just go up and do it you'll know if they want you to. you put your hands on their hips and just rock to the music. its easy and fun (:

they'll just be happy you're dancing with them and you can gain more confidence after you just do it

and they will not reject you.

then you can start moving up, but really you can start out that way.

good luck! (:
';grind';????? don't, please don't sounds stupid. even if it's not, you may get umm.. ';happy'; if you know what i mean, it will just get awkward.. youll be embarrassed, just dont, why cant you ';normal'; dance?
first.... just start like dancing near her. then start dancing sorta wiht her like kinda. then, be kinda like sexy. next its grinding time!!! dont know how to grind? just hold her hips and let her go!! haha just move!
If the girl wants to dance with you she will come up to you usually ... but don't be too shy she won't know you like her and want to dance if she's a good friend then come up to her and start dancing the worst that will happen is she'll just ask you to stop
Kay im a black girl, so take it from me. She can either bend over and grind on you, or she can do it with her back straight. When you grind, you hold her hips, (Not bum) But her pelvis bones. And pul her closer to you. Dont be worried if your sexy parts touch with hers, it always happends. Move your hips from left to right in a smooth even movement. The whole point of grinding is sex, so you must dance very sexily. Im sure youll do good. Just be confident.

Good luck x
start with tequila. take it from there. and I hate hate hate it when a guy thinks dancing is ';grinding'; his weiner on my a$$ . try moving your upper body and keeping your feet movements to a min. and do not hump the air. just move your upper body with hers and to the music, starting with your ribcage and using your abs, it looks way better than moving your hips and acting like you just want to bust one on a girl.



practice at home in the mirror, then drink a shot of tequila and go for it..

remember ';incredible self-confidence'; dont let her smell fear or weakness. because confidence can make up for lack of dance skills. and dont look at her too much while you are dancing, make her look at you . thats it. playa